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If I notice a girl staring at my husband, I usually stare at her with my eyebrows raised and my husband ignores her until she looks away. It's not that I'm not ok with him looking at other girls, or that I'm afraid if she keeps looking at him he's gonna run over and ask her out/take her to a hotel. Or even that I'm not ok with her sneaking a glance. But staring and trying to catch his eye when I'm standing right there? I consider that slutty and extremely disrespectful. I won't tolerate it. Simple as that.
It would never go as far as flirting, believe me.
I mean, I know he can and would handle it. But woman to woman: leave, before you find out how hard it is to flirt with missing teeth.
I'd probably enjoy watching my wife handle it, whichever way she decided to -- smacking the guy with her hand or lips. If she wants my help, she knows how to get it, and I'd be happy to "rescue" her. Otherwise I don't interfere. We'd probably laugh about it later.
Step in and get involved if you see someone flirting with/coming on to your significant other,and try to stop it or would you stand back and let your significant other take care of it themselves? I mean what would you do?
My boyfriend lets me take care of it myself.
One day we were at the bar and the bartender kept flirting with me, it was a female and she was hot, but my boyfriend knows Im completely straight and he thought it was funny, So I made a joke of it and told him I should lower my blouse and I bet we would get free drinks for the rest of the nite, If there was a situation where he needed to step in he would, I dont care if other women look at him, I'm like yeah he's hot and he's mine. But I know he wont let them take it to far.
If I notice a girl staring at my husband, I usually stare at her with my eyebrows raised and my husband ignores her until she looks away. It's not that I'm not ok with him looking at other girls, or that I'm afraid if she keeps looking at him he's gonna run over and ask her out/take her to a hotel. Or even that I'm not ok with her sneaking a glance. But staring and trying to catch his eye when I'm standing right there? I consider that slutty and extremely disrespectful. I won't tolerate it. Simple as that.
It would never go as far as flirting, believe me.
I mean, I know he can and would handle it. But woman to woman: leave, before you find out how hard it is to flirt with missing teeth.
Who cares? Let her flirt. I'm attracted to women that are naturally flirty and fun, and far be it for me to put an end to that.
I'm sure if I was with her she'd be the type of woman to be respectful and know boundaries. I'm confident enough in myself, it wouldn't bother me. Plus, I've never really been worried about what other d00ds say or do.
Offer someone freedom, and you will be surprised at just how hard they fight to maintain your trust.
It depends.
My mom always taught me that a man knows how to turn off advances if he wants to do so. I practice leaving it up to the man because if he respects and values me he knows how to say I'm not interested in action and words to the other party.
What does ruffle my feathers are these sneaky b*tch*s who keep eyeing your man at different times then acting like they aren't doing it and waiting for you to disappear and they come and try to talk to him. That pisses me off because it's just straight fowl. Don't get me started on years ago when people walked in together or were together at a venue that meant OFF LIMITS but the world is all jacked up now.
It depends.
My mom always taught me that a man knows how to turn off advances if he wants to do so. I practice leaving it up to the man because if he respects and values me he knows how to say I'm not interested in action and words to the other party.
What does ruffle my feathers are these sneaky b*tch*s who keep eyeing your man at different times then acting like they aren't doing it and waiting for you to disappear and they come and try to talk to him. That pisses me off because it's just straight fowl. Don't get me started on years ago when people walked in together or were together at a venue that meant OFF LIMITS but the world is all jacked up now.
Why does that matter? That would make me sick too. When I'm with somebody I'm WITH somebody. No other woman on else matters, at least on a sexual matter.
I guess I wouldn't want a d00d hitting on my SO....but it's up to her. I'm not going to punch some guy out. I know how to fight anyway, what's the point unless I find out it would be some sort of challenge.
Step in and get involved if you see someone flirting with/coming on to your significant other,and try to stop it or would you stand back and let your significant other take care of it themselves? I mean what would you do?
He'll handle it. And how. He's good at radiating indifference without being mean or rude.
I don't like my own answer but here's what I'd do I suppose, because this is what happened.
This was about 20 years ago. My then-husband and I were at a store check-out. As he handed the cashier money, she took his hand in her left hand and with her other, very slowly put the change in his hand, dragging her hand across his when she let go of it. I was so stunned I couldn't even speak. She was giving him this come-hither look, gaze fixed on him with a little smirk. She was probably about ten years older than us. I didn't know whether to laugh (not because of her age) or be jealous. LOL So I just asked him what that was about after we left--I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of showing jealousy in front of her. He looked just as stunned as I was. I wish I were witty sometimes. I did feel a twinge of jealousy, insecurity, I dunno, but I'd love to have said something sarcastic funny to her as I walked off, grinning.
I probly would have made a "poor scary cougar" remark, loud enough for her to hear on the way out, along with a laugh to let her know how pathetic she just looked doing that to some guy who was obviously there with a girl!
the nerve of some people.... EWWW!
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I wish I were witty sometimes. I did feel a twinge of jealousy, insecurity, I dunno, but I'd love to have said something sarcastic funny to her as I walked off, grinning. 
