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I just started a new job, and typically get out around 11:30 or so at night. I commute so its about a half hour drive. Lately I've gotten a few coworkers asking for rides, or wanting to carpool. One of which is a semi-creepy guy. I've said 'no' both times when asked, but I'm just afraid they're going to push the issue and try to pressure me.
What is a direct, but nice way to say 'no'? The first time I said I couldn't go out of my way because I see really poorly at night and didn't want to get lost. The second time I kind of stumbled over my words and told him (the creepy guy) that I had somewhere to go (which was partly true).
By the way, if they are imposing, being nice is not necessary. How would you feel about imposing on someone to give you a ride? You wouldn't right? Why? Because its not your right to impose, and would be embarrassing to you to do so.
By the way, if they are imposing, being nice is not necessary. How would you feel about imposing on someone to give you a ride? You wouldn't right? Why? Because its not your right to impose, and would be embarrassing to you to do so.
I agree. I think its really rude to ask for a ride when you barely know someone. But I think they're of the mindset that that's just something that's expected from coworkers.
Sometimes I'll go out of my way for people, but having strangers ride with me is outside my comfort zone.
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I agree with the others, no explanation needed. And if they asked me why I'd stop what I was doing and look them dead in the eye until they squirmed and walked away.
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