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I totally disagree! Sleeping together may change the dynamics of a friendship for better or for worse. If two adults are friends and want to have sex, I don't see any harm, as long as both are on the same page and fully aware of the consequences.
You say you would not date a guy who has a FWB as if you are a God given gift to humanity, you must be a very pious, moral, perfect person who never did no wrong, I can't stand the hypocrisy!
I would never date anyone who was sleeping with someone else either. That does not mean I am pious or believe I am a gift to humanity. Where the heck did you get that idea from her post? All she was saying is what SHE would do. I don't see why it bothers you. You have never answered whether it will bother you to find out the woman you are interested in also has FWBs?
I would never date anyone who was sleeping with someone else either. That does not mean I am pious or believe I am a gift to humanity. Where the heck did you get that idea from her post? All she was saying is what SHE would do. I don't see why it bothers you. You have never answered whether it will bother you to find out the woman you are interested in also has FWBs?
It would not bother me if a woman I am dating has a FWB as long as she does not do it anymore after we decide to start a relationship if we ever do. I think it would be hypocritical for me to expect her to not do it when I am doing it myself. Now, cheating is a different thing all together and something I would never do.
The way some women think is great, so if a guy has a FWB and he does not tell you about it, he is a jerk. Now, if he is 100% honest and tells you about his FWB, you will not date him. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Good luck finding your Prince Charming on his white worse who never had a FWB and only has sex when he is in love!
That was the one thing I lways found funny. That some women was looking for a physically flawless man and thought he wasn't banging anyone else-lol
The way some women think is great, so if a guy has a FWB and he does not tell you about it, he is a jerk. Now, if he is 100% honest and tells you about his FWB, you will not date him. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Good luck finding your Prince Charming on his white worse who never had a FWB and only has sex when he is in love!
They know not what they say, they are socially programmed to give these sorts of answers, but genetically programmed to disregard them.
It would not bother me if a woman I am dating has a FWB as long as she does not do it anymore after we decide to start a relationship if we ever do. I think it would be hypocritical for me to expect her to not do it when I am doing it myself. Now, cheating is a different thing all together and something I would never do.
Why does it bother you if some women say they would not date a guy that had a FWB? Just don't date a woman who actually has morals, and you won't have to worry about it.
Okay. Well then, I think that having sex without having love feelings is immoral and wrong. I am totally against this FWB stuff. And in the big picture, I would like to have sex with as few men as possible during my lifetime. While I never expected there to be only one man in my life ever, I certainly don't want to have experienced many lovers. And the same standard holds true to the men I date.
And when entering into a possible dating or relationship situation, I am only interested in dating a man that is free and clear of both emotional and physical attachments to other women. And that's because I could never have sex with a man that I wasn't in love with and interested in a LTR with.
You can think anything you want. It's still only your opinion, of course. Perhaps Christian next door will think that you sleeping with a man without being married is immoral.
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