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Originally Posted by stephei2000
I have read this phrase many times saying to people who date is to relax and treat the date and talk to him like a friend. From a woman's perspective, I am trying to see how this is possible knowing the man wants to eventually get in bed with me. How can a woman be calm and relaxed knowing this is what going to the through the man's head also while getting to know her. My friends do not want to sleep with me so I can act natural. There is no way I can act natural when some guy is trying to figure out his way to sleep with me. I am still trying to figure this out how can this naturalness be possible. The possibility of a guy trying to get with me does not make me calm and relaxed.
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Just remember that you are in total control. He's not getting in your pants unless you allow it. So now you are armed with the knowledge that he eventually wants sex (not sure why you're dating if this isn't somewhere in your game plan too), just enjoy your time together and when you are ready you'll know. It's not rocket science.