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So, no time for sex then? Because by the time she is done with working 9-5 and then coming home and cleaning and cooking and taking care of the children, she will have no interest in boning you. I guarantee you.
If I have all of those responsibilities, you better believe she will have it equally. Women want equality, have at it.
I think they are looking for a submissive woman who they can control, and treat like crap. They expect that these women will continue to treat him like he is a king no matter what.
I feel that these type of men are chavanistic and actually are pretty pathetic.
It's not that. We just don't want any drama or anyone who's manipulative.
Asian women for the most part work hard at a job 9-5, cook, clean, take care of the children...they are , again for the most part, what every hard working American man wants and needs. They are family oriented and gracious, intelligent and successful. Their culture breeds positive energy and strong work ethic. Then look at the culture here for middle to upper class married women; generally snooty , wanting the ridiculous luxury SUVs that reduce visibility, arrogance, prude, no work stay at home moms, general sense of entitilement, hair and nails done is the highlight of the day...you get the idea.
Have you met a lot of Asian women because your ideas are way off the mark.
In New Zealand there is a huge Asian community, mainly Korean, Chinese and Phillipinos. Part of their culture is the grandparents care of the children while both parents work. They may be hard working but boy, are they ambitious and ruthless. They work their men to the bone and they don't put up with any crap.
I really think you are stereotyping and quite honestly incorrectly too. Not sure where you live, but most Asian women I've met in NY ((I'm talking about those I've met personally) are very career driven and independent and not family-oriented at all. In fact, they REBEL against the stereotypes like yours of being this perfect housewife who is there to clean, cook and take care of the children. You ARE stereotyping and your stereotype is outdated.
It's actually quite the opposite for me. What upsets me the most is that American men (generalizing) thinks Asian American women less valuable than East Asian women because of their own reasonings. That's not true. My Asian friends are very family-oriented, but they are also very career driven and independent. We may be "Americanized" according to American men, but we still have a strong passion to help and serve our families. We still have a strong passion to preserve our culture in America as well. It doesn't mean we're a "better" Asian group or anything. It does means we are trying to balance the American culture and our culture altogether.
I've been living in Mpls my whole life, and I have seen that the older generation (those who are in their 20s and 30s) are more family-oriented (and very career driven) than the younger generation. They're striving to complete the highest education they can and may have a little less family-oriented mindset, but they don't completely abandoned their families. It may not be true, but my experience makes it true. Honestly, I feel that living in America will change (and has change) our mindset on families, education, and independence. You'll likely to see more Asian women who are not family-oriented and have successful career. It doesn't limit other family-oriented women. They have a successful career also.
Originally Posted by BriInNH Asian women for the most part work hard at a job 9-5, cook, clean, take care of the children...they are , again for the most part, what every hard working American man wants and needs. They are family oriented and gracious, intelligent and successful. Their culture breeds positive energy and strong work ethic. Then look at the culture here for middle to upper class married women; generally snooty , wanting the ridiculous luxury SUVs that reduce visibility, arrogance, prude, no work stay at home moms, general sense of entitilement, hair and nails done is the highlight of the day...you get the idea.
It's actually quite the opposite for me. What upsets me the most is that American men (generalizing) thinks Asian American women less valuable than East Asian women because of their own reasonings. That's not true. My Asian friends are very family-oriented, but they are also very career driven and independent. We may be "Americanized" according to American men, but we still have a strong passion to help and serve our families. We still have a strong passion to preserve our culture in America. It doesn't mean we're a "better" Asian group or anything. It does means we are trying to balance the American culture and our culture altogether.
I've been living in Mpls my whole life, and I have seen that the older generation (I'm not talking about parents but those who are in their 20s and 30s) are more family-oriented (and very career driven) than the younger generation. They're striving to complete the highest education they can and may have a little less family-oriented mindset, but they do not completely abandoned their families. It may not be true, but my experience makes it true. Honestly, I feel that living in America will change (and has change) our mindset on families, education, and independence. You'll likely to see more Asian women who are not family-oriented and have successful career. It doesn't limit other family-oriented women. They have a successful career also.
Interesting post, thanks, and this is exactly what my cousins wife was speaking of.
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