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Old 07-12-2010, 12:02 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Originally Posted by virgode View Post
If this where my house, I'd have given him his 30day termination notice and looking for a replacement.
Totally. Like I said, her family has been made aware of the situation. She didn't want to cause a stir (like I said earlier) and have loss of income for her brother. Now the brother knows & will deal with it, should the issue continue.
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Old 07-12-2010, 02:28 PM
 
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I hope those of you bashing the house never find yourself laid off, divorced, bankrupt or without mortgage/rent money....
Could say yes to all but the divorce, widowed thanks. Never in a situation where I sounded like a teenager dealing with grown people. You asked our opinions, we gave them. Again, she should move or have them move. She obviously has family to help her deal with the situation better. Cut off ties. As for emergencies (cellphone), that is a crock, she doesn't need to accept his calls. As for you, cut out the poor-me victim bit.
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Old 07-12-2010, 02:54 PM
 
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Totally. Like I said, her family has been made aware of the situation. She didn't want to cause a stir (like I said earlier) and have loss of income for her brother. Now the brother knows & will deal with it, should the issue continue.
Often times women can confuse men with their signals, so glad you guys met the issue head on. Men don't have mind reading capabilities so as long as he was told and he complies and gets along than I don't see any future problem.

If he doesn't comply than he needs to leave and that is that.

Ultimately the least drama created is the best.
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Old 07-13-2010, 04:49 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Could say yes to all but the divorce, widowed thanks. Never in a situation where I sounded like a teenager dealing with grown people. You asked our opinions, we gave them. Again, she should move or have them move. She obviously has family to help her deal with the situation better. Cut off ties. As for emergencies (cellphone), that is a crock, she doesn't need to accept his calls. As for you, cut out the poor-me victim bit.
Not a victim, just a bystander.
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