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So I started seeing this guy a bit here and there, then got all shy and avoiding here and there, then this past 2 weeks we finally got together, and he has slept over ever night since then, but isn't "hitting on me" really, we mostly watch movies and fall asleep snuggling....
He has already been man enough to put up with two of my ladies nights, and met all of my sweet and super nerdy best group of friends in the world, and still seems interested, and then two times now he has brought a few of his guy friends over, and still seems interested after their input....
Well, this weekend he is bringing his munchkin over for the weekend, so is this kinda making me more of an officaial "girlfriend" now do you think???
I know I am an insecure woosie after 7 years in a very abusive relationship, so it is really hard for me to trust..... he does hold my hand in public too, talks about family etc....
Should I just give in and let myself enjoy this now? Stop having my guard up with him.... I am SOOOO afraid of getting hurt, and the thought of letting him in is making tears stream down my face...
I am so ready to be loved after being treated so badly for so long, yet petrified as well.
So guys, do you think it is probly safe to say he is truly interested and I don't have to be paranoid he is some player?
Yes. He is truly interested. Now it's up to you to stop punishing him for your previous bad relationship.
Op It sounds good. If he has his friends meet you, and they like you. And it seems he is sorta testing you. I think it's a bit early to have the child introduced, however you must got an A on the other test. So he is willing to introduce his offspring. Which is a very important step. I wish you well and have hope for you it will continue.
It seems from your post that he is interested in you. I wonder though if it was a little too early to introduce your child to him and the same goes for his kids. Be very selective. What if it doesn't work out with this guy, than you will introduce the next one and the next one...Catch my drift? It has to be one special man not to bring more confusion to your child's life.
Anyway, back to topic. I think he is interested but you really need to work on those insecurity issues. They can get in the way of your relationship.
It seems from your post that he is interested in you. I wonder though if it was a little too early to introduce your child to him and the same goes for his kids. Be very selective. What if it doesn't work out with this guy, than you will introduce the next one and the next one...Catch my drift? It has to be one special man not to bring more confusion to your child's life.
Well this is the first one he has met, because I know exactly what you mean... Definaitly barley anyone ever gets to meet the munchkin. Even some of my girlfriends I wouldn't want him to meet.
Well..... now I am a bit more shy than I was before. She really likes me, so that is kinda of scary as well.... I gotta slow this whole thing down ten times more now, because if I end up not liking him enough for a relationship, then I would be breaking three hearts, mine, hers, and his....... scary.
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