What's the Best Way To Handle This?

[LongIslandEddie]

Another approach might be for you to speak to your pastor or reverend, telling him of the conditions of your absence and ask him to mention your temporary withdrawl from the congregation-
"I'd like you all to keep sister Peach in your hearts, minds and prayers, she will be absent from the meetings for a few weeks, attending to a pressing issue (or family business".

If Mr. Right is genuinely concerned for you, he might approach your pastor and inquire as to your welfare but if you discuss the question that you have posted here, as to what to say
to this man, to the pastor, you might get a better sense of direction by asking the head of your congregation and it should be understood that if anyone can give you prudent council,
it would probably be the one who has gained a measure of insight to both you and this fellow who you have shown an interest in. Isn't this what a good spiritual guide is for?

[seeniorita]

I would just mention that I was going to be away for a few weeks and to keep me in their prayers. If he asks, be honest. If it's no big deal then what's the problem with just telling him?

It's not fair to twist the truth and if you had to come on here to ask, then it's not sitting right with you. If you are honest then you have nothing to be ashamed of or worry about. If he's interested he will pursue you and will appreciate your honesty. He may even offer to give you a "sick & shut-in" visit. Good luck!

[Ceece]

It's weird how complicated people make life.

[Atlanta Georgia Peach]

Originally Posted by Ceece

It's weird how complicated people make life.

LOL!

Ain't it the truth though? I can always count on interesting points of view when posting on these threads.

Some things just "ain't that deep" though, you know! LOL!