Drunk so not innocent (how to, guys, advice, alcohol)

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by misswee

Same guy....... I just am mad at myself, because I hope he still respects me now....

Now the mystery is gone, and I feel vulnerable???

I don't like feeling vulnerable....

I find it very discouraging that young women continue to be so stupid . And you do know what you did was stupid.

Now, learn the lesson and go forward to have more respect for yourself.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by misswee

You are right completely...

I in no way feel victomized, I just feel like maybe I didn't mean that much to him afterall, and now I am just some other girl...

I am sad because I wanted to mean more to him???

I just want someone to sweep me off my feet, this dating thing sucks..... poor guy #1 and I am SOOOOO out of the loop I don't have a clue about anything...

I have never been single, i want and need some practise, yet just want to be someones "little woman" more than anything...

dang 21st century sucks....

Get a clue!!!

IF you really want to mean more to a guy then respect yourself.

If you don't, he never will.

[misswee]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

So did you ask him about being active on the dating site and whether he is seeing other women? Just curious.

No, I wimped out, I think that was bugging me on the back of my mind, and partly the reason I was drinking, because I was in denial about that and wanting to say something, obviously I wimped right out...

I just really suck at this adult real world stuff...

I do feel like a little girl with this stuff...

Clueless.

I am actually crying like a stupid wimpy sap right now......lol..... I need a friggin hug.

[2mares]

I have also known women who will get a guy drunk and roll him.
So if IM DRUNK = EFF ME for a woman and thats ok
does IM DRUNK = STEAL MY WALLET for a man and thats ok too.

[2mares]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

Sure, but she hasn't known this guy long and she's pretty sure he's dating other women.

Would you trust this person to look out for your best interest? And honestly, how about personal responsibility?

Of course there is no substitute for personal responsibility. But that does not excuse those who will take advantage of others.

[misswee]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

I find it very discouraging that young women continue to be so stupid . And you do know what you did was stupid.

Now, learn the lesson and go forward to have more respect for yourself.

I KNOW! it was completely stupid!

I guess alot of the girls I know have been single for a long time and are the opposite of me.


I mabey was trying to fit into what they are like, and now realise I am from a different cookie cutter and can't handle this grown up stuff.

I need to meet someone for a LONG time first next time...

Mabey I even need to meet someone who is willing to wait for marriage again?

i know yesterday I said the taste the milk stuff, but that isn'tout of experience, that is just me accepting others..

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by misswee

No, I wimped out, I think that was bugging me on the back of my mind, and partly the reason I was drinking, because I was in denial about that and wanting to say something, obviously I wimped right out...

I just really suck at this adult real world stuff...

I do feel like a little girl with this stuff...

Clueless.

I am actually crying like a stupid wimpy sap right now......lol..... I need a friggin hug.

Okay, so time to stop acting like a little girl gone wild in the candy store with a huge stomachache.

This is an opportunity for you to actually LEARN something - I suggest you dry your tears and focus on becoming the woman you want to be

[Ep-]

Originally Posted by misswee

No, I wimped out, I think that was bugging me on the back of my mind, and partly the reason I was drinking, because I was in denial about that and wanting to say something, obviously I wimped right out...

I just really suck at this adult real world stuff...

I do feel like a little girl with this stuff...

Clueless.

I am actually crying like a stupid wimpy sap right now......lol..... I need a friggin hug.

sounds like you just gotta stop worrying about every little thing and just go with it and see what happens. theres gonna be some mystery

i wouldnt even bother asking why hes still on the site. you barely have been going out with him

[WannaliveinGreenville]

Originally Posted by JSizzle225

Ben Roethlisberger, is that you?

LOL ! Sorry I had the underline font and could not correct it

[texas_dave11]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Okay, so time to stop acting like a little girl gone wild in the candy store with a huge stomachache.

This sounds like her first drunken one night stand, I'd say she's doing pretty good. Except for the whole "accountability" thing...