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These guys are right, I do feel like some little kid. I am SOOOO clueless about this adult stuff....
I think I would be happier as some cat lady....
I haven't been desensitized yet, or jaded or whatever, so it sucks having feelings and caring...
It's your choice but I would think with the way you are feeling right now, it's best to leave this one in his ballpark.
It has nothing to do with being desensitized, jaded, etc., it's about self-control and self-respect. Until you have those, I would suggest leaving alcohol alone.
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Originally Posted by 2mares
I have also known women who will get a guy drunk and roll him.
So if IM DRUNK = EFF ME for a woman and thats ok
does IM DRUNK = STEAL MY WALLET for a man and thats ok too.
No one said either was OK...it is what it is. I didn't make it so but I've been around long enough to know what NOT to say or do to end up in such a situation. The OP needs to learn a little self control.
If the guy gets his wallet stolen, the girl is a thief. She took it from him, he didn't give it to her. In the OP's case, she got drunk and gave him the *meow*.....not the same thing.
Okay, so time to stop acting like a little girl gone wild in the candy store with a huge stomachache.
This is an opportunity for you to actually LEARN something - I suggest you dry your tears and focus on becoming the woman you want to be
That is why I am here, trying to learn something off of the rest of you....
I really need some major advice.
It really dosen't help moving from a small town where everyone has known me since kindergarden, to the city, where the teenagers even have more experience than me.
I am SOOOO out of my element, and SOOOO over my head it feels like.
If the guy gets his wallet stolen, the girl is a thief. She took it from him, he didn't give it to her. In the OP's case, she got drunk and gave him the *meow*.....not the same thing.
It's your choice but I would think with the way you are feeling right now, it's best to leave this one in his ballpark.
It has nothing to do with being desensitized, jaded, etc., it's about self-control and self-respect. Until you have those, I would suggest leaving alcohol alone.
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I agree, just because everyone else around me knows how to handle these situations like water off a ducks back, dosen't mean I can.
Lesson learned.... need to go buy a bunch of cats now.
The catlady scenario seems much easier to me than this man/woman complicated stuff.....
That is why I am here, trying to learn something off of the rest of you....
I really need some major advice.
It really dosen't help moving from a small town where everyone has known me since kindergarden, to the city, where the teenagers even have more experience than me.
I am SOOOO out of my element, and SOOOO over my head it feels like.
Great! Did you see what I wrote above? Memorize this:
IF you really want to mean more to a guy then respect yourself.
If you don't, he never will.
Being "out of your element" does not have to be a problem.
Remember, you are the captain of your ship - so quit steering yourself into the rocks!
Just slow things down a bit, quit feeling like you have to "catch up" with other people your age - YOU DON'T. Decide who YOU want to be and what the lines are that you won't cross, then live by the rules you make for yourself.
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