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Old 07-13-2010, 11:42 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I KNOW! it was completely stupid!

I guess alot of the girls I know have been single for a long time and are the opposit of me.


I mabey was trying to fit into what they are like, and now realise I am from a different cookie cutter and can't handle this grown up stuff.

I need to meet someone for a LONG time first next time...

Mabey I even need to meet someone who is willing to wait for marriage again?

i know yesterday I said the taste the milk stuff, but that isn'tout of experience, that is just me accepting others..
Hell! i just want to know if you're any good in bed!
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:44 AM
 
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Hell! i just want to know if you're any good in bed!

I dont think she really remembers.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:47 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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So I should wait until he calls me then?

These guys are right, I do feel like some little kid. I am SOOOO clueless about this adult stuff....

I think I would be happier as some cat lady....

I haven't been desensitized yet, or jaded or whatever, so it sucks having feelings and caring...
It's your choice but I would think with the way you are feeling right now, it's best to leave this one in his ballpark.

It has nothing to do with being desensitized, jaded, etc., it's about self-control and self-respect. Until you have those, I would suggest leaving alcohol alone.



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I have also known women who will get a guy drunk and roll him.
So if IM DRUNK = EFF ME for a woman and thats ok
does IM DRUNK = STEAL MY WALLET for a man and thats ok too.

No one said either was OK...it is what it is. I didn't make it so but I've been around long enough to know what NOT to say or do to end up in such a situation. The OP needs to learn a little self control.

If the guy gets his wallet stolen, the girl is a thief. She took it from him, he didn't give it to her. In the OP's case, she got drunk and gave him the *meow*.....not the same thing.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:48 AM
 
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Okay, so time to stop acting like a little girl gone wild in the candy store with a huge stomachache.

This is an opportunity for you to actually LEARN something - I suggest you dry your tears and focus on becoming the woman you want to be

That is why I am here, trying to learn something off of the rest of you....

I really need some major advice.

It really dosen't help moving from a small town where everyone has known me since kindergarden, to the city, where the teenagers even have more experience than me.

I am SOOOO out of my element, and SOOOO over my head it feels like.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I dont think she really remembers.
MABEY she does. MABEY she don't.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:50 AM
 
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If the guy gets his wallet stolen, the girl is a thief. She took it from him, he didn't give it to her. In the OP's case, she got drunk and gave him the *meow*.....not the same thing.
Whoa. Actually it is EXACTLY the same thing.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:50 AM
 
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I dont think she really remembers.
lol.... yeah, that is the problem.

I don't really drink, and don't think I will be trying to pretend i can drink very often in the future.

I didn't drink at ALL during my entire 20's, just for a few months after i turned 19, and a few times here and there in the last 6 months.

I obviously SUCK at it.....

Wish I had a big brother here or something, lol...
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:53 AM
 
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It's your choice but I would think with the way you are feeling right now, it's best to leave this one in his ballpark.

It has nothing to do with being desensitized, jaded, etc., it's about self-control and self-respect. Until you have those, I would suggest leaving alcohol alone.

.

I agree, just because everyone else around me knows how to handle these situations like water off a ducks back, dosen't mean I can.

Lesson learned.... need to go buy a bunch of cats now.

The catlady scenario seems much easier to me than this man/woman complicated stuff.....
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:54 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Whoa. Actually it is EXACTLY the same thing.
Please tell me how a thief stealing a wallet is the same as a girl having drunk sex with a dude?

You do know what a thief is? Someone who takes without permission, steals.

The OP LET him have sex with her. Drunk or not, it was by choice.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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That is why I am here, trying to learn something off of the rest of you....

I really need some major advice.

It really dosen't help moving from a small town where everyone has known me since kindergarden, to the city, where the teenagers even have more experience than me.

I am SOOOO out of my element, and SOOOO over my head it feels like.
Great! Did you see what I wrote above? Memorize this:

IF you really want to mean more to a guy then respect yourself.

If you don't, he never will
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Being "out of your element" does not have to be a problem.

Remember, you are the captain of your ship - so quit steering yourself into the rocks!

Just slow things down a bit, quit feeling like you have to "catch up" with other people your age - YOU DON'T. Decide who YOU want to be and what the lines are that you won't cross, then live by the rules you make for yourself.
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