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BUT! If I was drunk, and said repeatedly " I AM DRUNK" the whole night, and then the first time we do the deed is the night I say "I AM DRUNK".... do you think the guy is a bit of a disrespectful ahole taking advantage???
I know I am not innocent, because I let myself get drunk, but I also told him, before hand... "hey I am little, I am on a cleanse and don't really drink. so don't let me drink too much".......
Would you drop a guy who did this like a hot potatoe???
Shouldn't the first time together be SOBER and something you can BOTH remember???
yes, give me the hard honest answers...... It is my fault for getting tipsy, but if you really cared about a girl, wouldn't you wait untuil you were both sober for the "first" time together???
I feel perterbed now, like come pick up all of your clothes and don't come back....
I am as much ti blame YES, but if you respected a girl, you should wait until she is sober shouldn't you??
BUT! If I was drunk, and said repeatedly " I AM DRUNK" the whole night, and then the first time we do the deed is the night I say "I AM DRUNK".... do you think the guy is a bit of a disrespectful ahole taking advantage???
Um, here's a little clue for ya. Saying repeatedly "I AM DRUNK" = "F**K ME"
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I know I am not innocent, because I let myself get drunk, but I also told him, before hand... "hey I am little, I am on a cleanse and don't really drink. so don't let me drink too much".......
Would you drop a guy who did this like a hot potatoe???
Why, he didn't do anything wrong. You are an adult and should be in control of your own alcohol consumption and conduct.
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Shouldn't the first time together be SOBER and something you can BOTH remember???
Ideally yes but I guess it didn't mean that much to you huh? Seeing as how he didn't rape or force you to have sex. Don't go and try to make it about "awww, the first time we made love." You gave it up easy-peasy with your drunk a**.
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yes, give me the hard honest answers......
See above ^^^^^
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Am I making a big deal out of nothing???
Yes you are. Take your sexcapade like a big girl and do better next time.
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Well..... I just would have waited way longer..... mabey now I feel like he has more controll than me?
Still, he knows how little I am and that I dont normally drink......
He WAS drinking too, so should I just be glad we broke the seal, or be perterbed???
If I wasn't drinking I might take to long and end up in the friend zone too, soooo....
Was this a test for him? Here's what you have told us: You are a woman of slight stature, you are in the midst of a cleanse, you don't drink often and you basically announced your intention to get drunk on that night. A girl who meets those specifications, goes out on a date and proceeds to get drunk and repeatedly announces her inebriation wants either (i) to have sex with her date or (ii) to see if he passes some impossibly subtle test of character with undetectable nuances. So, do you find this guy very attractive or are you looking for a reason to get rid of him?
On the face of it, I'd say you got drunk and he misinterpreted it. You wouldn't be the first woman to get drunk to make the first time a little less intimidating. I don't think you should be angry at him unless you told him beforehand that you didn't want to have sex and he continued to refill your glass.
However, you're obviously upset about it, so I think you should tell him that you feel it was a mistake, that you'd like to start over and not have sex again until you're both ready and preferably, sober.
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On the face of it, I'd say you got drunk and he misinterpreted it. You wouldn't be the first woman to get drunk to make the first time a little less intimidating. I don't think you should be angry at him unless you told him beforehand that you didn't want to have sex and he continued to refill your glass.
However, you're obviously upset about it, so I think you should tell him that you feel it was a mistake, that you'd like to start over and not have sex again until you're both ready and preferably, sober.
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