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Old 07-23-2010, 03:17 PM
 
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5 Typical Things Women Say To Men And What They Actually Mean.


Women give their advice through their reactions. They also give their advice to you through what they say, you just have to know how to translate it.

So today in part one of my 3 part series on “Speaking Womanese” we’re going to look at some typical things women say when meeting new men, and what they actually mean.

1. “ I have a boyfriend”. Click Here To Find Out What She Really Means!

 
Old 07-23-2010, 03:48 PM
 
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is this a trap? lol...
 
Old 07-23-2010, 06:04 PM
 
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Excellent article. Here's the author's blog. He's one of the better dating coaches out there from what I know of him:

The Sinns Of Attraction
 
Old 07-23-2010, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Maryland's 6th District.
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According to Sinn, unless I missed something, a woman never says that she has a boyfriend if she really does have a boyfriend? Baloney! Based on my experience, and from what I see from my female friends, saying, "I have a boyfriend" means only one thing: from this point forward, I want to have nothing to do with you! Sometimes there really is a boyfriend (and I have been that boyfriend a few times), and other times it means that you blew it or she is otherwise simply not interested.

#4 seems right on, though.
 
Old 07-23-2010, 06:41 PM
 
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According to Sinn, unless I missed something, a woman never says that she has a boyfriend if she really does have a boyfriend? Baloney! Based on my experience, and from what I see from my female friends, saying, "I have a boyfriend" means only one thing: from this point forward, I want to have nothing to do with you! Sometimes there really is a boyfriend (and I have been that boyfriend a few times), and other times it means that you blew it or she is otherwise simply not interested. .
From the mans perspective it doesn't matter. They both lead you to the same place so it's not worth mentioning.

The whole thing is depressing. Are there women who say what they mean? That arn't stiffled by social pressures?

i mean yeah, i could play all of those games, but i'd lose my soul.
 
Old 07-23-2010, 06:45 PM
 
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If a girl says she has a boyfriend, then that could also be an alpha test. A beta would be "oh, I respect that, i'll move on" whereas an alpha won't care and will still pursue.
 
Old 07-23-2010, 06:51 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That was funny....figure this one out.
U stink.

Ok what do I really mean?

A. U smell
B. Ur mean
C. Wanna wrestle
 
Old 07-23-2010, 07:06 PM
 
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If a girl says she has a boyfriend, then that could also be an alpha test. A beta would be "oh, I respect that, i'll move on" whereas an alpha won't care and will still pursue.
For once you are right...but you continue with that Wolf talk.

Passive/Assertive/Aggressive. Most women want an assertive guy.
 
Old 07-23-2010, 07:07 PM
 
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That was funny....figure this one out.
U stink.

Ok what do I really mean?

A. U smell
B. Ur mean
C. Wanna wrestle
A) I'm wearing too much cologne??

B) You are stating the obvious.

C) If you want some, come get some.
 
Old 07-23-2010, 07:09 PM
 
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Well, that article just lends credence to the long-standing rumor that PUA's only get to have sex with three kinds of women:

1. Imaginary;
2. Inflatable; and
3. Stoned or drunk off their ***.

By the way: since guys who follow the advice of "dating gurus" are intensely stupid, I have little doubt that some of those men who take that article to heart will eventually find themselves on the receiving end of a rape prosecution. In the (probably futile) hope of lessening the likelihood of that happening, I have something for the so-called PUA's to think about:

First, if you are DETERMINED to misinterpret what women say to you, don't crawl all over the Internet whining about women sending you "mixed signals". Second: you are not irresistible. Shocking, I know, but it's true. Even though you may spend hours diligently insulting ("negging"?) every attractive woman within earshot, even if you are wearing a totally banging outfit that looks like you were shot out of a cannon straight into Lady Gaga's dressing room -- in other words, if you have a totally awesome "game" -- some women still will honestly not want you to put your penis in them. With that in mind, assume that "I don't want to have sex with you" means "I DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU". Settle for a petty insult. Otherwise, you may one day find yourself blogging from prison.
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