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please don't call me a psycho because the song was written just before we got together. so it should be ok, i know. BUT...
we're together for 2 years. i used to hear a lot about her in the begining of our relationship and sometimes all till now obviously, and plus hearing him play that special song for her, got me a little bit fed up. it's not bitter, it's a praise.
what i find disturbing is that i tried to love the song and even sing it with him, and then this...
yes i wonder what is going on. what strikes me is he went to the club (he's a musican) pissed of probably thinking i'm jealous. and he is not contacting me, is he trying to guilt trip me?!
i don't wanna be the other girl and be insecure thanks to him.
what is he trying to do anyway?
yes i'm thinking about breaking up...
if he's not apologizing for putting you through that, esspecially after you expressed your concerns, then he isn't concerned about your feelings.
This actually sounds a little sick. 1st you are singing the song. the song needs to be buried. 2nd you are both singing the song. He is playing you and his self thinking he doesn't want to be with her anymore. It sounds like he wants to be with both of you making love and singing the song at the same time. He needs to either make a better song about you or you can all sing the song together
my boyfriend wrote a song for a girl he fell in love with and named it after her.
when i confronted my boyfriend about this, and said i didn't want to go to the club then if it was about this. he didn't want to talk to me and just left there without me.
I wasn't being rude or jealous, i felt disrespected.
what should i do?
Wait!! He ditched you at a club? What a guy! DUMP him! Although, kinda sounds like already dumped you, so it might not be necessary.
What should you do? Nothing. You need to move on, and let him have his little fantasies about his ex along with his song.
That was asking alot of you to even go to the club that she works at. Gezzz..whats up with that? Let alone...singing the song in front of her. Good luck!
Good advice.
In answer to earlier question, yes, he still has feelings for her.
I believe that if you ever really love someone, you always will.
But, everything changes, evolves.
Dump this guy, find someone who will commit to you, without
strings. You are worth it!!!!
I'm sorry he mistreated you like that. It's horrible that someone would ask you to sing a love song with him TO a physically present ex. It's worse that he would then get angry at you for not wanting to participate.
I'm glad you've decided to lose him. Also, when someone goes on and on about their ex (good or bad) at the beginning of a relationship with you, it means they are not ready for another relationship.
That is very wrong of him. If he's in a relationship with you, he shouldn't be writing romantic songs about anyone else. If he wants to write a generic love song and leave the meaning ambiguous, then that's one thing. But to openly write a song about a past love is unforgivable.
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Let alone...singing the song in front of her. 
Good luck!
