Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Like our friend from the other thread who got taken for a ride in Thailand, Davie's got the tendency to look at any scrap of attention from a woman as twoo wuv. If you're acting fast because you're afraid of losing her, don't. Twoo wuv can and will wait.
Last edited by fleetiebelle; 08-04-2010 at 11:22 AM..
It's different for everybody, my bf and I have lived together for about 4.5 years (we've been dating for 5 total) so it may work out, I don't suggest moving in with someone as early as I did but thankfully it has worked out in my favor. Odds are against couples who live together before marriage but there are a small amount of lucky couples who will stay together for the long haul.
If you're still questioning and asking strangers, it's too soon.
That being said, some things you have to actually do before you find out if it was a good idea or not...so there you go. There's no guarantee that letting x amount of time pass before you move in is going to make it work out.
If you're still questioning and asking strangers, it's too soon.
That being said, some things you have to actually do before you find out if it was a good idea or not...so there you go. There's no guarantee that letting x amount of time pass before you move in is going to make it work out.
Stan4 speaks truth. I know at one point I felt "sure" and was interested in moving in with an old girlfriend; she refused. Time passed and we continued dating, and prior to my deployment to the desert, she was practically desperate to close out my apartment, move me in with her (in her new house), and take over my finances for "my convenience".
Would have been the worst move I could have EVER made! I would have come home penniless to a house someone else owned but I'd paid a hefty amount for, possibly even finding all my stuff sold!
There's just no way of knowing FOR CERTAIN unless you do it and either it works out OR it fails.
There are no rules. No one can predict for you whether or not your relationship will suffer or flourish under one roof.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
