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By "proper treatment" are you talking about b/j's? If this is something that is really important to him and you are not willing to do it, then it could be a dealbreaker for each of you. Hold your ground if this is something you feel strongly about. You seem like a young couple, he's probably horny all the time and sexually frustrated. I suspect if he feels he isn't receiving the "proper treatment" from you, he'll eventually find someone who will. If it comes to that, chalk it up as a compatibility issue and find someone else.
Do what you think is right and don't change for anyone. You should not be wasting your time fighting about silly stuff either. There are other guys, so if he doesn't straighten up, dump him and move on.
I think I'd move on if it were me. I'm just not into false accusations, fighting, and drama, but if you enjoy it, this is the man for you. Remember you can't change others, so if you think you are going to fix him reconsider.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months now. We started off great, then we hit a rough patch, then we were good again, now we fight about the same stuff all the time: he feels like I'm cheating on him or I'm not giving enough the "proper treatment" if you know what I mean. When arguments happen, he backs off after he realizes that I'm not unfaithful and I'm not going to do what I don't want to do.
A few days after the argument, he starts complaining about the same things.
I really love this guy, but I don't know how to make him understand that I'm not one to give into peer pressure or anything of the sort.
How do I beat it into his head without physically hurting him??
It sounds like he is paranoid. Tell him that you are just not into drama, and move on!
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