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Old 08-07-2010, 04:30 PM
 
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Well there are several possibilities
- he's learned that he is gay
- he's masterbating
- not attracted to you anymore
- sleeping with someone else
- a health issue
- bad experience during sex with you the last time
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Old 08-07-2010, 04:54 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Are you suppose to be talking to HIM and not US? How embarrassing for him!!

How is that embarrassing for him? We don't even know who he is nor do most of us care. She's just asking for some advice
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Old 08-07-2010, 04:54 PM
 
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Been there, except it was longer than a month and he ended up dumping me. I can look back and pinpoint when I should have ended it. I should not have put up with it and I don't think you should either.

Best of luck.
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Old 08-07-2010, 05:02 PM
 
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Do like Kim Catrall in Sex in the city. Sushi is always a good Idea when A man is hungry.

Your not a nympho for having sexual desires.

Last time this happened to me. Me and my ex hadn't had sex in the whole month. It cost me 1 bed and a T-shirt.

Dress sexy and go get him!!

And for gods sake Don't hold back. Make him pay. (what a lucky guy )
This is not about her initiating, at least in my mind. Something is very wrong with him (like others said it may be medical, psychological or maybe he's just not that into her) if he has not had any interest in having sex with her for over a month. I would also say to the OP that he is not necessarily cheating, so before she assaults him with accusations of infidelity or ED, she needs to calmly talk to him and ask him if there's something wrong.

BTW, just as men prefer to not have to initiate all the time, neither do women.
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Old 08-07-2010, 05:10 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Are you suppose to be talking to HIM and not US? How embarrassing for him!!
Why? Does he know this is about him? What about all the other posts on here with scenarios of people asking for relationship advice? That's what this forum is designed for. And the anonymity of the internet makes it the ideal place to be able to talk to other adults about such sensitive issues. Attempt to shame someone for opening up; Fail.

Last edited by Whyte Byrd; 08-07-2010 at 08:23 PM.. Reason: typo--thanks spinx! *grumble*
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Old 08-07-2010, 05:59 PM
 
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Why? Does he know this is about him? What about all the other posts on here with scenarios of people asking for relationship advice? That's what this forum is designed for. And the anonymity of the internewt makes it the ideal place to be able to talk to other adults about such sensitive issues. Attempt to shame someone for opening up; Fail.
I didn't think about it like that. I guess.
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Old 08-07-2010, 06:22 PM
 
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Time for a long chat with him to find out just what the heck his problem is. If he will talk to you about it, you will have a better idea what path to take in the near future. In the mean time, I would invest in a good viberator, not a battery operated one. Once I got it, I'd learn how to use it. You will find that you can learn to be much more responsive to his (or anyone else's) touch, and that always helps a relationship.
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Old 08-07-2010, 06:47 PM
 
Location: DFW
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If you really want to drive him crazy, when you get your new toy make him sit, watch and tell him he can't touch until you say OK.

That's assuming he's a healthy straight male.
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Old 08-08-2010, 01:23 AM
 
Location: Thornrose
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Gather up all the ^^^ angry emoticons:

Get naked and place one on each n*pple and the remaining across your woo-hoo! Let us know how it turns out!
Your woo-hoo? That's a new one for me! I'm in favor of this idea though, the mental image is tantalizing!
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Old 08-08-2010, 09:12 AM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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If you really want to drive him crazy, when you get your new toy make him sit, watch and tell him he can't touch until you say OK.

That's assuming he's a healthy straight male.
Big assumption. Maybe he's not.
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