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Old 08-17-2010, 09:32 PM
 
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What do you think is a male that is undateable? lol

(this is just for fun)-Like the show it's not always true.
There are undoubtedly undateable men. Twenty years ago I tried to date a woman and at last had to proclaimed her undateable. It was really a shame because she was attractive to the eye and was intelligent. And believe it or not, much of the time we actually hit it off. But the negatives simply outweighed the positives by too much.

First, she was a born-again Christian who, after a few dates, insisted that I be born again too. But the fatal flaw was that she could be very mean and tactless. She could be generous and loving too but when she was mean and tactless, it was unbearable.

She once called me and told me she had an emergency and to come over immediately. I had been eating a sub sandwich, but I dropped it and drove quickly the mile or two over to her apartment. I ran into her building, and hurriedly knocked on the door. She opened the door and I asked her what was the emergency. She looked at me for a few seconds and then in a semi-angry voice said, "My God, don't you ever brush your teeth?" Apparently I had a bit of lettuce from my sub sandwich stuck between my teeth. The "emergency" was a toilet that had a stopper that leaked causing the toilet to make a gurgling sound. Her acidic reception upon opening the door stuck in my craw. These years later it still annoys me.

Another time I came into her apartment and she was watching a TV show. I was wearing a jacket and as she explained the show's plot to me, I took off my jacket and placed it over a nearby chair. As I was turning to put my jacket on the chair, the lady ceased her talking. I turned and found her glaring at me. I asked her what was wrong, and in a hostile voice she grumbled, "If your aren't going to listen to me, at least show me the courtesy of acting like you are listening." I had been standing a few feet from her the entire time. It was as though she thought I could not hear her unless I was looking at her too. At that point I told her that I could not have a relationship with a woman who expected some strict, exact behavior every minute we were together.

There were several of these occurrences over the course of a few weeks. I finally had to call it quits. Ironically, I ran into another guy who had tried dating her after I had. He wondered how in the world she was going to get anyone to stay with her, given some of her personality traits. Twenty years later I looked her up on Facebook. She is still single and unattached. I am not the least bit surprised.
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Old 08-17-2010, 09:36 PM
 
Location: Pa
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There are undoubtedly undateable men. Twenty years ago I tried to date a woman and at last had to proclaimed her undateable. It was really a shame because she was attractive to the eye and was intelligent. And believe it or not, much of the time we actually hit it off. But the negatives simply outweighed the positives by too much.

First, she was a born-again Christian who, after a few dates, insisted that I be born again too. But the fatal flaw was that she could be very mean and tactless. She could be generous and loving too but when she was mean and tactless, it was unbearable.

She once called me and told me she had an emergency and to come over immediately. I had been eating a sub sandwich, but I dropped it and drove quickly the mile or two over to her apartment. I ran into her building, and hurriedly knocked on the door. She opened the door and I asked her what was the emergency. She looked at me for a few seconds and then in a semi-angry voice said, "My God, don't you ever brush your teeth?" Apparently I had a bit of lettuce from my sub sandwich stuck between my teeth. The "emergency" was a toilet that had a stopper that leaked causing the toilet to make a gurgling sound. Her acidic reception upon opening the door stuck in my craw. These years later it still annoys me.

Another time I came into her apartment and she was watching a TV show. I was wearing a jacket and as she explained the show's plot to me, I took off my jacket and placed it over a nearby chair. As I was turning to put my jacket on the chair, the lady ceased her talking. I turned and found her glaring at me. I asked her what was wrong, and in a hostile voice she grumbled, "If your aren't going to listen to me, at least show me the courtesy of acting like you are listening." I had been standing a few feet from her the entire time. It was as though she thought I could not hear her unless I was looking at her too. At that point I told her that I could not have a relationship with a woman who expected some strict, exact behavior every minute we were together.

There were several of these occurrences over the course of a few weeks. I finally had to call it quits. Ironically, I ran into another guy who had tried dating her after I had. He wondered how in the world she was going to get anyone to stay with her, given some of her personality traits. Twenty years later I looked her up on Facebook. She is still single and unattached. I am not the least bit surprised.
I wonder if she has adhd? My sister n law acts this way. Rather annoying I know.
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Old 08-17-2010, 10:16 PM
 
Location: The ICT, KS
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I'm pretty sure I'm undateable. Ask me all about it!
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Old 08-18-2010, 02:56 PM
 
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I must be, considering nobody wants to date me!
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Old 08-18-2010, 03:00 PM
 
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I must be, considering nobody wants to date me!
Sorry to hear that, bro.
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Old 08-18-2010, 03:04 PM
 
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Hey Raena, do you want names? Yes, we could all give you names of some of our 'favorite' CD posters. Those who want a girl but don't know how to go about finding and keeping just one quality girl. I know there must be thousands of really good girls out there, but I think many men make themselves what you might call 'undateable'. Yet, they don't recognize it's them and not the girl.
Ya know I was going to take the wife out tonight but they said it might rain. So scratch that idea.
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Old 08-18-2010, 03:05 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I must be, considering nobody wants to date me!
OK, dateable or undateable is debatable, but when did you get a pair inflatable?
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Old 08-18-2010, 03:18 PM
 
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OK, dateable or undateable is debatable, but when did you get a pair inflatable?
Now thats funny
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Old 08-18-2010, 03:26 PM
 
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Haha...just re-read the title of this thread!

Okay, so I'm not a male, but I might as well be. I'm always the "cool, awesome" girl that guys just want to be friends with.
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Old 08-18-2010, 03:27 PM
 
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OK, dateable or undateable is debatable, but when did you get a pair inflatable?
LOL!

Seriously, thanks for the laughs.
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