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Old 08-16-2010, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Canada
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I would like to know why women notice more men who cook or/and dance. I dance salsa-merengue-bachata and cook once in a while. It happens that I received the visit of one of my aunts and she said" Oh! I didn't know you could cook, its nice to see a man who can cook". Maybe just an isolated example.

Well do you have any thoughts on the reason why do women like men who know how to cook or/and dance is so sexy?

I know women like men who know how to use their hips but I was wondering if theirs another explanation.
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Old 08-16-2010, 02:28 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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I would like to know why women notice more men who cook or/and dance.
I wouldn't say I notice them more, and it's definitely not a deal-breaker if the guy can't cook or dance. My last BF couldn't cook OR dance, but he was talented in other areas... ahem.

Personally, I find a man who is talented and passionate about anything very sexy. For example, I'm a sucker for musicians. And I don't mean garage-band musicians, who do it to get the girls. I mean the ones who get so caught up in what they're playing, they forget the world around them. They do it for themselves. My brother is one of those guys, and maybe because I grew up in such a musical family, I appreciate it so much.
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Old 08-16-2010, 02:35 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Personally, I find a man who is talented and passionate about anything very sexy.
Definitely. Capability and passion are really attractive qualities.
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Old 08-16-2010, 02:39 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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I know women like men who know how to use their hips but I was wondering if theirs another explanation.
Because if they know how to use their hips they know how to use their............ahhhh, nevermind! I'm keeping it PG-13 today!
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Old 08-16-2010, 02:57 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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The same women who "like" dancing have to do it in public. If they loved dancing so much, dancing at home would be just as good. It's about attention they get, dancing, Not the actual dancing itself..
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Old 08-16-2010, 03:14 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Is this really a question....Women like men who cook for the same reason men like women who like to cook and women like men who can move their hips for the same reason men like women who can move their hips.
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Old 08-16-2010, 03:43 PM
 
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The same women who "like" dancing have to do it in public. If they loved dancing so much, dancing at home would be just as good. It's about attention they get, dancing, Not the actual dancing itself..
Methinks you're confusing strippers with women who like to dance.
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Old 08-16-2010, 05:18 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Because those men are unlikely to ask for oral sex...from a woman.
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Old 08-16-2010, 06:52 PM
 
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I like a man that cooks because I am not the best cook in the world, and appreciate a man who helps around the house. As far as men who dance, well that's easy, they are happy, in shape, not embarrassed to be seen, and usually have great hair and dress well all the time. Also, a man who's good on the dancefloor is probably great in bed.
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Old 08-16-2010, 06:59 PM
 
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Methinks you're confusing strippers with women who like to dance.
No Betamanlet has it correct. Most women are exhibitionists who love to be the center of attention. If a woman goes dancing, I guarantee you that she's spent all day getting ready with the makeup, hair, right outfit, etc.

The interesting thing is that she's not necessarily trying to look good for men but rather to show up other women. They are incredibly competitive and want to be the "hottest" babe on the dance floor. This is another reason why so many young women do the slow grind with other women. They know if they do that, they'll REALLY get the attention.

Many men don't like to dance because it has feminine/gay stigma. Most really good professional dancers are gay. Many men think wiggling your hips and waving your arms is too fu-fu. Hey, don't blame me, I'm just the messenger.
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