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Its great while it last. The biggest thing is most likely won't have a friend in the end. If you decide to do this just know that could be the outcome. Only because you should already have feelings for the person if its a real friend. I'm talking about a person you really know. Then the sex will be good and you will be into each other hard. It can work but you would have to keep everyone out of your business.
Previously I have had a FWB. I very much enjoyed it because at the time I didn't want a relationship but wanted that one perk so I found a willing partner - we set our boundaries and went with it.
The problem with boundaries is that each person interprets them differently.
I did this when I was much younger and it was fun but I always found out someone always got hurt. And that someone was almost always the person who fell in love.
A lot of men can have sex without a connection but a lot of women can't and this is where the problems come from.
You have to find the women who can do this without feelings and when you do, you will most likely get hurt yourself.
It's a no win situation where everyone can get hurt. But it sure is fun when in the moment as long as both agree.
Send your application if you are intereted in being a "stress relief Assistant" There is no Age discrimination in my center-lol
I've said it before but some things bear repeating. Grasshopper, I would rather walk into the spinning blades of a helicopter than be face to face with you in any social situation.
PS: If Assistant warrants a capital A, how come the words "stress" and "relief" don't warrant the same? And why is the "a" in "age" capitalized? Career counselors (even those who deal with unfortunate dropouts and ex-cons) should have some command of grammar in order to set an example.
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Originally Posted by smel
I've never had a FWB, and I don't want one. When I have a friend, that is a relationship that is different than a sexual one. I wouldn't want to do anything that could cause me to lose a friend that I care about. If they are a friend, I am not going to use them for sex even if they think that would work. Sex, in my opinion, is only for an exclusive relationship. I don't talk about it...if I am in a relationship, then, I would be in it all the way. I don't do anything halfway...and if I had sex with someone it would mean they were way more than friends.
I've said it before but some things bear repeating. Grasshopper, I would rather walk into the spinning blades of a helicopter than be face to face with you in any social situation.
PS: If Assistant warrants a capital A, how come the words "stress" and "relief" don't warrant the same? And why is the "a" in "age" capitalized? Career counselors (even those who deal with unfortunate dropouts and ex-cons) should have some command of grammar in order to set an example.
Well said.
"Come Baby Come Baby, Baby Baby Come Come, when you gotta givin lovin and you give me some"
Look, you have to use common sense. You wouldn't do this with someone who is RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL
For example, the girl who is coming here tomorrow is not relationship material because
Because she has low self esteem
unemployed
BUT she has FWB qualities that is important like
Attractive
Pleasant
Has her own transportation
So you have to make sure they are npt relationshp
Since you've never had a "relationship" as you define it, you're hardly in a position to know the difference between "relationship material" and "skank".
As excruciating as it is to decipher your mangled grammar and as long as your nose grows, your description of this alleged FWB is painful at best. She has low self-esteem and is unemployed BUT she is attractive, pleasant and - most important - has her own transportation. The latter is of course a major plus for you as you don't even have to walk her to the bus stop.
Even if she exists (which I very much doubt) the money you pay her probably supplements her unemployment benefits and if she's "assisting" you then she probably has several other similar customers who, like you, are aging Grasshoppers who learn nothing and remain misogynistic outcasts. Sigh.
Since you've never had a "relationship" as you define it, you're hardly in a position to know the difference between "relationship material" and "skank".
As excruciating as it is to decipher your mangled grammar and as long as your nose grows, your description of this alleged FWB is painful at best. She has low self-esteem and is unemployed BUT she is attractive, pleasant and - most important - has her own transportation. The latter is of course a major plus for you as you don't even have to walk her to the bus stop.
Even if she exists (which I very much doubt) the money you pay her probably supplements her unemployment benefits and if she's "assisting" you then she probably has several other similar customers who, like you, are aging Grasshoppers who learn nothing and remain misogynistic outcasts. Sigh.
I pay her for GAS and DINNER not pay her to play with me.
Since you've never had a "relationship" as you define it, you're hardly in a position to know the difference between "relationship material" and "skank".
As excruciating as it is to decipher your mangled grammar and as long as your nose grows, your description of this alleged FWB is painful at best. She has low self-esteem and is unemployed BUT she is attractive, pleasant and - most important - has her own transportation. The latter is of course a major plus for you as you don't even have to walk her to the bus stop.
Even if she exists (which I very much doubt) the money you pay her probably supplements her unemployment benefits and if she's "assisting" you then she probably has several other similar customers who, like you, are aging Grasshoppers who learn nothing and remain misogynistic outcasts. Sigh.
at first I was like about this response,
but then I re-read and was like
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Originally Posted by STT Resident
He misquoted the lyrics but, when you live a Walter Mitty existence, that's not an unusual faux pas.
Yeah, I know. I was thinking more about the music, which immediately came to mind when I read some of the words
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about this response,
