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Old 08-17-2010, 06:01 PM
 
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This just in:

When dating around, take care of your sexual health. It's v v v important.


what do you mean? I am not gonna sleep with any of them. I am waiting to get to know someone VERY WELL first this time around..... if we like each other we will have allll the time in the world for sex later.

Or did you mean, self serve to avoid temptation, lol...
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Old 08-17-2010, 06:03 PM
 
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get to know people a bit better before dating them then. most of those pressures go away if you are friends with someone for a little bit, get to know them then start dating.

thats where ive had most success. when i was just chain dating random girls i met at bars or online it wasnt much fun once the novalty of dating 3-4 girls at a time wore off

Definatly the road I am taking this time around.
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Old 08-17-2010, 06:32 PM
 
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If I were single (which I have never been) I would love to get out there and start dating. If you're not looking for Prince Charming it looks like it could be a lot of fun. I love meeting new people, men and women, so meeting men who I might have a connection with and be attracted to as well would be a bonus!
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Old 08-17-2010, 10:28 PM
 
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If I were single (which I have never been) I would love to get out there and start dating. If you're not looking for Prince Charming it looks like it could be a lot of fun. I love meeting new people, men and women, so meeting men who I might have a connection with and be attracted to as well would be a bonus!

Yeah, I do love meeting new people. maybe I will feel more comfortable if I just put them in the friend box off the bat, and try not to think of it as a date?
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Old 08-17-2010, 10:43 PM
 
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It is kinda hard NOT to in Vancouver... you just smile, or ask someone directions, or pretty much stand around and someone is asking you to do something.
Lovie, having seen your photo, I can see why guys hit on you.

I have a feeling I'm going to regret saying this because I'm sure it's going to bring out the haters and the He-Man Woman-Haters, but you can afford to be choosy. As others have said, if a gent is not your type, you have only to say, "I'm flattered, but no thank you."

I've said this to a few folks, but if pressed, you can always invent a boyfriend and say that you're seeing someone. Sometimes that is the only thing certain men understand.

Relax, enjoy casual dating. It can be a LOT of fun.
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Old 08-17-2010, 10:48 PM
 
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If I were single (which I have never been) I would love to get out there and start dating. If you're not looking for Prince Charming it looks like it could be a lot of fun. I love meeting new people, men and women, so meeting men who I might have a connection with and be attracted to as well would be a bonus!
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Yeah, I do love meeting new people. maybe I will feel more comfortable if I just put them in the friend box off the bat, and try not to think of it as a date?
Oh gawd, the two of you. Honestly, were ol' Mother Hen over here a millionaire, I'd take the both of you for a chick weekend of martinis, spa treatments, and dancing. Seriously. I think you both need to realize what you have to offer the world.

Aight, back to my snark. I have a reputation to protect.
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Old 08-17-2010, 11:35 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I am not liking this dating thing....

I am just going for coffee and dinners etc, no one gets a kiss goodnight or anything, but it feels weird...

Like I know it is just a date, and guys date around and think it is all great and fun etc, but I feel like some betrayer or something....

Like I don't want to lead anyone on, or get anyones hopes up, but guys sufe can make you feel guilty....

They really act like they like you soooo much, and then you feel like a turd for going on a date with someone else the next day, even though you are not with anyone yet, and are being "just friends" with everybody.


they are probly dating around too, and I don't care that they do it, but man, the guilt feeling.

I know this is what people do these days, but I am not luvin it....

Why do I not feel sorry for you.
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Old 08-17-2010, 11:38 PM
 
Location: southern california
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you have a lota guilt and not committing. you must be a good person.
dont date join hobby groups and meet someone super.
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Old 08-17-2010, 11:43 PM
 
Location: Texas
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you have a lota guilt and not committing. you must be a good person.
dont date join hobby groups and meet someone super.

oh I'm sure she'll do that
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Old 08-18-2010, 12:12 AM
 
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Oh gawd, the two of you. Honestly, were ol' Mother Hen over here a millionaire, I'd take the both of you for a chick weekend of martinis, spa treatments, and dancing. Seriously. I think you both need to realize what you have to offer the world.

Aight, back to my snark. I have a reputation to protect.


Oh misswee, Av wasn't wrong about your pic either!! Hubba hubba, lady!
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