He called me fat.

[imcurious]

Ditch the loser and don't look back. Hold out for someone who thinks YOU are awesome and who would never even think of saying hurtful things to you - what a horrible person. I hope he reaps what he sews.

[david2419]

Originally Posted by stinkerbomb

Thanks. its just really hard, because he is a great guy. he says hes being honest about my body, and any other guy would just be lying to me.

Find out what ur BMI should be & do something about it. It will make u feel good about yourself. You can do it! Working out is one of the funniest things to get into plus when you start to see results you will be ! Good luck & don't get mad at him for telling you are fat. You should thank him & make a changes. But if he makes fun of you then tell him where to go!!!!

[ferretkona]

Originally Posted by DeeHermMui

I was dating a man, he seemed really nice, caring and kind, but then started making little comments about my weight and size (and I am not that big, I run marathons and am very fit). I asked him the other day if he thought I was fat because he kept making mean comments. His exact words were "I am not going to lie, but you are DEFINATELY on the heavy side". When he left to go to the store, I took my things and left him and never looked back. It was very hurtful and it made me feel ashamed and embarrassed that I ever walked around in front of him naked, and no one needs to feel like that!

You asked for a opinion and got one. You were looking for a reason to leave anyway.

[Ceece]

I never minded a bit of pudge on guys but most guys don't like to see it on girls. I have some, and it's probably not going anywhere, and it does hurt when the person you are with tells you they don't like it.

Perfection is great, just not realistic. I think guys (and girls) expect too much because of our plastic surgery/airbrushed idea of beauty. It seems some people can't even get turned by "average" anymore and need lot's and lot's of help in that department.