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Bf is very reluctant to hug/kiss me goodbye in the morning before leaving for work. He says I love you before he leaves. But if I ask for a hug he would barely around one arm on my body and say in an impatient way that he has to go. the only time he would hold my body(from back, never front) is in bed.
It has become a battle, that I ask for a hug/kiss goodbye every morning and he would get impatient.
This morning same thing happen again, after a requested quick hug, I insisted that he give me a kiss on the cheek, he then says" can you not be so immature?"
I was so upset that I called him a fat ass.
Is it too much to ask for a qucik kiss goodbye in the morning? Am I being unreasonable and not understanding that he has to get to work?
Is this the same boyfriend that people keep telling you to leave whenever you post about him? If it is the same guy I would recommend that you just leave. There are too many issues with him.
Anyway, in answer to your question; it is not, nor do any of us know why he's doing it. It literally takes a couple seconds.
Why not just tell him that it's really bothering you that he's not showing affection outside of the bedroom. Find out why he isn't.
I talked to him about that, when I first mentioned, he would deny that he doesnt want to hug/kiss me, and say he would do it. But then he still wont do it. So when i mention again he got mad and says I pick up fights and he tired of hearing me nagging.
I talked to him about that, when I first mentioned, he would deny that he doesnt want to hug/kiss me, and say he would do it. But then he still wont do it. So when i mention again he got mad and says I pick up fights and he tired of hearing me nagging.
As a guy, I think this is odd behavior, particularly since you have already told him it's important to you. Other signs of lack of affection? or just this?
Is this the same boyfriend that people keep telling you to leave whenever you post about him? If it is the same guy I would recommend that you just leave. There are too many issues with him.
After seeing this and looking at threads the OP has started. If this is the same guy, I definitely agree with this statement.
This morning same thing happen again, after a requested quick hug, I insisted that he give me a kiss on the cheek, he then says" can you not be so immature?"
I was so upset that I called him a fat ass.
How old are both of you?
Because neither one of you seems to be equipped for an adult relationship.
Is it too much to ask for a qucik kiss goodbye in the morning? Am I being unreasonable and not understanding that he has to get to work?
I have no problem giving a quick kiss or two...
[and a spank ]
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