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In all seriousness I just don't care at all, what other people think of me. I don't know if that is the classic definition of a narcissist or not.
To my friends and people I love, I hope they respect me.
To everyone else, all you ever get to see is my Shadow Self....love it, hate it, mock me, laugh at or with me....whatever, like I said I just don't care what people outside my circle think. And on that note I've never claimed to be "nice."
you can only put up an act for so long. eventually the real you will come out and you will look like a liar in the process.
be yourself always and from the beginning
Totally agree with this. No point in being deceiving or holding back on being the real you. You can't possibly build a relationship or friendship with someone being phoney. It's not right and, IMO, would be way too much work!
People either like me or hate me. I don't think there's an in between. When you're unconventional with your thoughts, choice of words, and expressions, you will always raise a red flag.
If people want to take the time to get to know me, great. If not, life goes on.
When I look back at my unsuccessful personal relationships there is one common theme. I felt like I had to be on my best possible behavior and try to come off as perfect. I tried not to say the wrong thing, act like the cooest kid in class, not show my weaknesses, insecrities and faults and be so politically correct. In general I watched myself and attempted to be the perfect person or at least the type of person I thought they wanted me to be.
Now I do the opposite. I let people close to me see me for who I really am. I act silly, odd, eccentric, and weird on occasion if that fancies my mood at the time. I don't worry about letting my hair down. I let them see my human side and all my warts and faults.
How about you, do you act weird and insecure without fear to the people you love?
I can't be anything BUT myself. I suggest for people to show their true colors right away, so there are no surprises later.
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It's ok. They make everything great. 
