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Old 09-03-2010, 01:54 PM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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Samston just ask her out to lunch the two of you. Ya big wuss.
I think she's got a point there Dano.
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Old 09-03-2010, 02:01 PM
 
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Does Dan sort of invite himself to lunch or does the mystery woman actually ask him to join her? If she doesn't show any indication of being interested in him as more than just a coworker Dan could build up his hopes only to find out that this isn't going anywhere. I've done the very same thing myself so I know it's not a pleasant experience. Also, things could end up badly if Dan seems to be coming on too strong so he needs to look at this whole situation realistically.
Dan sort of invites himself.
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Old 09-03-2010, 03:30 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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Dan sort of invites himself.
I'm leaning toward potential stalker now. New question, when Dan catches her alone, does she try to attract others to join them?
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Old 09-03-2010, 03:42 PM
 
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How is it being a stalker? She may not be interested, but is there a way to know if she can be without coming off too strong?
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Old 09-03-2010, 04:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Make something up. Tell her you need her advice and go over things with her on paper work analysis the conversation and see how it goes.
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Old 09-03-2010, 05:15 PM
 
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Are you Dan? I don't mean is Dan your real name, I mean, are you talking about yourself in third person. If you are that changes the situation a bit. If you are not Dan, then what's your dog in this fight? Do you have a crush on Dan? Or do you have a crush on Rachel? How are you related to this issue? Come Clean.
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Old 09-03-2010, 05:22 PM
 
Location: Outside always.
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Are you Dan? I don't mean is Dan your real name, I mean, are you talking about yourself in third person. If you are that changes the situation a bit. If you are not Dan, then what's your dog in this fight? Do you have a crush on Dan? Or do you have a crush on Rachel? How are you related to this issue? Come Clean.

Of course he is Dan...ok....dan, samston or just dude....talk to Rachel...you surely will know if she is interested or not. If she never makes a point to speak to you first, then, I would hold off. If on the other hand, she comes by to speak, smiles a lot, makes eye contact, and generally seems like she is paying attention to you..then, she is interested.
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Old 09-03-2010, 05:32 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Of course he is Dan...ok....dan, samston or just dude....talk to Rachel...you surely will know if she is interested or not. If she never makes a point to speak to you first, then, I would hold off. If on the other hand, she comes by to speak, smiles a lot, makes eye contact, and generally seems like she is paying attention to you..then, she is interested.
Some how I think he is Ross whom loves Rachel. Where is Marcel the monkey?
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Old 09-03-2010, 05:56 PM
 
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Are you Dan? I don't mean is Dan your real name, I mean, are you talking about yourself in third person. If you are that changes the situation a bit. If you are not Dan, then what's your dog in this fight? Do you have a crush on Dan? Or do you have a crush on Rachel? How are you related to this issue? Come Clean.
Dan is not my real name, but a pseudonym.
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Old 09-03-2010, 06:01 PM
 
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Of course he is Dan...ok....dan, samston or just dude....talk to Rachel...you surely will know if she is interested or not. If she never makes a point to speak to you first, then, I would hold off. If on the other hand, she comes by to speak, smiles a lot, makes eye contact, and generally seems like she is paying attention to you..then, she is interested.
When she comes by to our department, she says hello, but that's about it. It does seem she is not interested, but she is so nice. It would be a shame to let up.
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