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Ive been with my man for over a yr now, and a few months ago I was a lil disturbed that he didn't accept me as a friend on Facebook. He has it blocked so U cant see any pics, or other info. I seen an X post a comment that she was thinking about him too.. as it was a thinking man post.. & when I asked him WHY he didnt add me I really didnt get an ANSWER at all. I asked a few times & somehow it was passed off like I was dumb for caring! I didn't really have a problem with it until it seemed he had no concern for my feelings... I thnk its shady & disrespectful that U have YOUR X that calls & still has feelings for him (Ive learned later).. & NOT ACCEPT ME! We live 100miles from each other, so not like we can see each other regularly. I love & want to trust but think a relashp should be Open & Honest... makes me wanna Grrrr!! My friend contacted the X recently on FB & her butt says they still together but shes over 1,000 miles away!! Drama! .... and Im not sure who or what to think?
Is it cool to have X girlfriends on your Friends list contacting U & not YOUR current?? disrespectful??
Is it cool to have X girlfriends on your Friends list contacting U & not YOUR current?? disrespectful??
I think that if you are married, then it is DEFINITELY NOT COOL to have exes as friends on Facebook. I get FB messages and invite requests all the time from exes but I will NEVER become friends with them.
I guess if I had just a girlfriend, I would probably add her, but will not add any of her friends unless they become my good friends as well.
If it were just some women I was dating (i.e., just banging but not interested in a long term relationship), then no way would I add her as a FB friend. NO WAY.
Ive been with my man for over a yr now, and a few months ago I was a lil disturbed that he didn't accept me as a friend on Facebook. He has it blocked so U cant see any pics, or other info. I seen an X post a comment that she was thinking about him too.. as it was a thinking man post.. & when I asked him WHY he didnt add me I really didnt get an ANSWER at all. I asked a few times & somehow it was passed off like I was dumb for caring! I didn't really have a problem with it until it seemed he had no concern for my feelings... I thnk its shady & disrespectful that U have YOUR X that calls & still has feelings for him (Ive learned later).. & NOT ACCEPT ME! We live 100miles from each other, so not like we can see each other regularly. I love & want to trust but think a relashp should be Open & Honest... makes me wanna Grrrr!! My friend contacted the X recently on FB & her butt says they still together but shes over 1,000 miles away!! Drama! .... and Im not sure who or what to think?
Is it cool to have X girlfriends on your Friends list contacting U & not YOUR current?? disrespectful??
Of course its disrespectful. As I said in another post 1/3 of the threads on here are about facebook. Facebook is stupid. It is a waste of time it causes too much drama and problems like this. Most men on facebook are there to flirt with other women. Especially when they refuse to add their own girlfriend as a friend Get rid of him.
This issue keeps coming up on CD. It is obvious that he does not feel what you feel. It also sounds like you might not be the only one he is seeing. Why else would he not add you as a friend? He has things on his FB that he does not want you to see. I am sorry that you are feeling this way. However, if he does not care enough to consider your feelings, you should move on.
Sorry, but this guy is not your man. You from 100 miles away and this ex that is 1,000 miles away are merely his side-meat. If he thought of you as anything more we wouldn't be having this discussion.
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My friend contacted the X recently on FB & her butt says they still together but shes over 1,000 miles away!! Drama! .... and Im not sure who or what to think? 
If that's the case he's NOT her X - and he's NOT your BF!
