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Old 09-13-2010, 09:31 AM
 
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Not all marriages end because one or both partners just couldn't stand one another anymore. Might be you just married too young, or you just weren't ready for marriage. The reasons are plentiful other than just wanting to kill one another.

If the opportunity arose for you to remarry your ex, would you? Or one of your exes.
Actually, yes, I would (but I will not). We got married way too young and didn't handle things the way we were supposed to. He appears to have matured a lot since we parted ways and so have I.
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Old 09-13-2010, 10:18 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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My ex husband? Not a chance in hell. There is only one ex b/f I would have ever married and we never could get our lives on the same track so it would be a mute point. In hindsight though, no, I don't imagine marrying that ex b/f would have been a successful relationship.
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Old 09-13-2010, 10:20 AM
 
Location: La Jolla, CA
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Ew.
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Old 09-13-2010, 10:23 AM
 
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My ex wife? No way. Never! No chance. Negative. Hell NO! #### no. Are you stupid?
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Old 09-13-2010, 10:49 AM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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I know two previously divorced couples who remarried and have stayed together for more than 25 years the second time around. Both couples seem to be happy.
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Old 09-13-2010, 11:55 AM
 
Location: colorado
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Not all marriages end because one or both partners just couldn't stand one another anymore. Might be you just married too young, or you just weren't ready for marriage. The reasons are plentiful other than just wanting to kill one another.

If the opportunity arose for you to remarry your ex, would you? Or one of your exes.

LOL.. that is too funny....my ex wont marry his gf now all because what I did to him...Like it was her fault...I dont think he should take it out on her for what I did.
I asked him for a divorce in 1996 was no longer inlove with him..
but marry an of my ex's that just cracks me up
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Old 09-13-2010, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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We toyed with this idea for too long - during separation and after divorce (on and off - good 3 1/2 years). I think and sure hope the decision made less than a year ago is finally final! Yeah, I believe it is.
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Old 09-13-2010, 12:46 PM
 
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My ex wife? No way. Never! No chance. Negative. Hell NO! #### no. Are you stupid?
So, what you're saying is, the answer is no?
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Old 09-13-2010, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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no, we have nothing in common...however, if you offer me Pierce Brosnan, I might consider?

Seriously, they say you can never go back, however, I do believe people change with age and it works for some...
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Old 09-13-2010, 12:53 PM
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Location: MA/NH
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Not all marriages end because one or both partners just couldn't stand one another anymore. Might be you just married too young, or you just weren't ready for marriage. The reasons are plentiful other than just wanting to kill one another.

If the opportunity arose for you to remarry your ex, would you? Or one of your exes.
Heck no!!! And I wouldn't want to date any of my ex-boyfriends again either.

I'm a different person now. I've grown a lot personally and have new interests... and they never changed. One of my exes still doesn't know how to drive a car, and I dated him about 25 years ago.

Needless to say, the main reason I broke up with all of my exes is that they weren't intellectual enough for me. They didn't have an inquiring mind about life, and eventually they bored me to death. But they were basically good guys and they never did anything bad like cheat on me. I fell out of love with them because they were the same person I first met. Once I learned everything there was to know about them, that was it and there wasn't anything interesting to learn about them after that, so the excitement in our relationship was all gone. Meanwhile, I was constantly finding new hobbies and interests to learn about. And no way was I going to be the only passionate about life person in the relationship.
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