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Old 10-05-2007, 04:40 PM
 
Location: in drifts of snow wherever you go
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I've been married now 27 years and would'nt change a thing but I know I only ended up with her because she pursued me, I was on my way to California with or with out her and if she did'nt ask to come along it would never have ended up the way it did. Looking back on things I dated alot but relationships ended for no special reason, i'm assuming because we were alike in that respect.
I have no interest in chasing after men. I want an alpha male, and to find one, I have to let him catch me....

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Old 10-06-2007, 09:41 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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If you settle for someone who doesn't even WANT you, isn't it doomed from the start?
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Old 10-11-2007, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Temporary on Earth for a little while
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all i know is that i want the guys to come after me because that's my standard...i know its 2007 , but i still hold onto my beliefs. i like the old fashioned way. and well if the guys are not getting the hints then he is just not that into you. and guys if you really really like a girl....make sure you give her clear hints. or actually tell her to her face that you like her.....no more stupid games ...girls need to stop playing with the guys emotions and girls need to do the same thing. I hate it when things are not clear....so guys do your selves a favor if you truely like her tell her to her face. yes you might get rejected but at least you tried.
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Old 10-11-2007, 11:46 AM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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never chased, never thought about it....there were men I cared for, but never stepped up to bat...yanno?

I just didn't like being the chase er......
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Old 10-12-2007, 03:56 PM
 
Location: NEW JERSEY
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A lot of times guys chase me, but if I really like a guy, I have asked them out or dropped hints.

I like guys to still do old fashion things, but if I really like someone I will take the risk and put myself out there. Some people are shy and might need me to take that first jump.

It's better to be rejected then to live your life saying "what if".
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Old 10-28-2007, 09:10 AM
 
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I am female, but I am assuming it applies to both male or female right?

For me, I like being pursued because some guys seem to appreciate you more if they have to work for it. I've never been one to chase.



There are many versions of being 'pursued' and 'obcessed over'. Being pursued or pursuing is okay to a reasonable extent, but if I tried chasing a guy and he made it clear he didnt want anything more than friends, I would have to understand and leave it at that. Sometiomes friends get a long better than they would in a relationship. I would have to be pretty desperate if I were to continue 'chasing' after him even after he made it clear his position.
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