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Let's face it, your husband is attracted to sexy women. Why do you think he married you?
I like the reverse psychology suggested by others, but here is an alternative way to go about it. When he comments on another woman, ask him politely "Honey, what does it mean when a man says that, because when men say that to me, I'd like to know what they are thinking?" And if that doesn't arouse jealousy, you might want to inquire what it means when a man gropes a woman's ass.
If he did that to ME, and he told me that it was no big deal, I would wonder if I was doing anything wrong for him to be checking out other women like that. And then I'd wonder if he were getting some action on the side without me knowing.
And then I'd probably be tempted to smack him upside the head.
I am really mystified by how common these threads are. I'm no spring chicken and to be frank, I only know one such man.
He's a guy who while he's intelligent and has made the best of a bad lot in life (raised in an orphanage and got NO breaks) he has this problem.....
He's been married for a long time to a lady who handles it with confidence and more importantly, humor. This puts him in his place fast, and we all get a good laugh. Perhaps his libido is in decline but I also noticed a reduction in his "outbursts".
20 years ago, there were women who didn't like his "style" but they've generally warmed to him. I suppose that it's because he is a very reliable husband and as the title above says "All Talk - No Action". This is the complete opposite of his wife's first husband.
So ask yourself this, in the absence of another choice, what do you want?
He has to recognize why he does it and it's obvious that it isn't because you think it funny. Unless there is something truly worth a comment such as two playmate models coming in the restaurant in the middle of a shoot -- hey, come on we're only men, he is simply making a dig at you. Tell him it doesn't make you feel good and would he want to be compared to all the 20 yo Adonis's.
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All Talk - No Action
