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Old 09-18-2010, 09:20 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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I hate this. When I'm with my husband he thinks it is OK to look at other women and make comments to me about them. Like, Oh who's you're Daddy or just a moan. What the hell is up with that? I think it is disrespectful. I don't care what he does when I'm not with him (as far as looking and comments) What should I do or say? I feel Like SH*T. Is there any man out there who can tell me what's going on in your head?
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Old 09-18-2010, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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You really need to tell him, not us. Seriously, let him know it bothers you and you aren't going to tolerate it.
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Old 09-18-2010, 09:30 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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I already did. He thinks I need to go for counceling because as he says he's just looking and I have a problem.
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Old 09-18-2010, 09:33 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Sounds disrespectful. It's one thing if the wife is going along with it, it's another when it truly bothers you. Has he always been this way?
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Old 09-18-2010, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Destrehan, Louisiana
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I hate this. When I'm with my husband he thinks it is OK to look at other women and make comments to me about them. Like, Oh who's you're Daddy or just a moan. What the hell is up with that? I think it is disrespectful. I don't care what he does when I'm not with him (as far as looking and comments) What should I do or say? I feel Like SH*T. Is there any man out there who can tell me what's going on in your head?

Little pecker big head syndrome. You can always play the eye candy game back at him but he probably couldn't handle it.

Seriously, tell him that you don't like it and then, don't put up with it. All men look at other women but real men don't do it in a way that disrespects their wife.

busta
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Old 09-18-2010, 09:40 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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I don't know if you're a man with your point of view.
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Old 09-18-2010, 09:41 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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No, it has gotten worse since he has gotten older.
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Old 09-18-2010, 09:44 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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Thank you for responding. I feel the need to reach out to others so I can get an outside view of things.
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Old 09-18-2010, 09:44 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Start noticing the nice 'packages' some of the men are carrying...
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Old 09-18-2010, 09:45 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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Good advise. I think I will next time we are out and about.
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