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Old 09-21-2010, 10:02 AM
 
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- What would you do if you were in his situation?
Divorce her.

After I had her arrested, I mean. She committed assault. She needs to be in jail.
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Old 09-21-2010, 10:19 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Sad, this is the ugly face of jealousy. It would be over plain and simple. I hope the hospital adviced him of his option to pursue the incident legally, unless of course he wasn't honest about the events and how his injuries occured. Worst thing he can do, but a decision he has to live with, the next time he may not come out of the hospital.

I'm wondering though (this is your colleage), how you obtained information as personal and confidential as him asking his best friend to find his wife to tell her to go home? Odd.

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- I have a colleague named John who is very handsome and good with words, and many women like him a lot. But his wife is kind of insane. She's afraid that John will leave her for other hot girls or cheat on her some day because he's way too handsome. To prevent this, last night she threw boiling water on her husband and ran away. But this morning when John wake up in the hospital, he decided to forgive his wife and told his best friends to go find her and take her home. I was a little surprised at his decision. He is so generous, thoughtful, kind and cute.

- What would you do if you were in his situation?

SakuraNam
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Old 09-21-2010, 10:25 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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He is so generous, thoughtful, kind and cute.



SakuraNam
Something sounds kind of odd here. I'm not sure why.
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Old 09-21-2010, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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Something sounds kind of odd here. I'm not sure why.
You're not the only one that thinks that......
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Old 09-21-2010, 11:52 AM
 
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pay one of the friends to sleep with her...
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Old 09-21-2010, 12:03 PM
 
Location: 112 Ocean Avenue
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Originally Posted by SakuraNam View Post
- I have a colleague named John who is very handsome and good with words, and many women like him a lot. But his wife is kind of insane. She's afraid that John will leave her for other hot girls or cheat on her some day because he's way too handsome. To prevent this, last night she threw boiling water on her husband and ran away. But this morning when John wake up in the hospital, he decided to forgive his wife and told his best friends to go find her and take her home. I was a little surprised at his decision. He is so generous, thoughtful, kind and cute.

- What would you do if you were in his situation?

SakuraNam
Danielle Steel posting under the pseudonym SakuraNam?
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Old 09-21-2010, 12:17 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Danielle Steel posting under the pseudonym SakuraNam?
I'm not surprised.. are there similarities here to one of her novels, I haven't read them?
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Old 09-21-2010, 02:05 PM
 
Location: beautiful NC mountains!
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Something sounds kind of odd here. I'm not sure why.
I get the same feeling?
OP...Who are you to this John? Just a co-worker? Seems like there is more to the story. If the wife just tossed hot water on him in a fit of rage then, I would agree, she needs some help. If, however, she tossed hot water on him after finding racey texts from co-workers who think he is cute... Maybe she has simply had enough of his crap. Two sides. There are always two sides.
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Old 09-21-2010, 02:47 PM
 
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I get the same feeling?
OP...Who are you to this John? Just a co-worker? Seems like there is more to the story. If the wife just tossed hot water on him in a fit of rage then, I would agree, she needs some help. If, however, she tossed hot water on him after finding racey texts from co-workers who think he is cute... Maybe she has simply had enough of his crap. Two sides. There are always two sides.
Are you crazy?

How does finding racey texts from co-workers who think he is cute somehow reduce the gravity of tossing boiling water at someone?

Even if I found out that my GF engaged in daily gangbangs, that wouldn't justify assaulting her...with boiling liquid.
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Old 09-21-2010, 03:44 PM
 
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^^I was thinking the opposite.

She is really insecure.

At any rate...if the lady did that to me and I was in the hospital....she would run too.
Indeed. She's criminally insane if you ask me and is clearly a danger to society, as the husband found out first hand (assuming the story is true). At a minimum she needs to be locked up. Lets get that far and then we'll talk about whether or not he should ever forgive her, let alone take her bat**** crazy ass back.
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