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1 Has and pursues goals in life
2. Makes mostly good decisions and doesn't repeat bad ones.
3. Confident, but humble
4. Lives within her means financially
Well, you started of with a question as if you will try to be a certain way.
Bad idea.
Be yourself. Have fun. Don't be fake. Eventually you will show all your true colors...why not do it right away. If they don't annoy him then you are erasing alot of b.s. time that is unnecessary. If you like a cheese burger...order it. Don't get a small salad cause you are afraid he will think you are something...order what you want. Guys dig girls that drink beer and eat burgers.
Too many women walk around all prissy and acting a certain way cause they don't want him to think you are something else. Well, you are something else. Don't hide it only to surprise him later that you aren't that way at all. You get that????? Be yourself. Be comfortable enough to do what you would do even if he wasn't there. That's you! Be YOU!! If he doesn't like what you are doing...he won't like what you are doing. That's him. Better it is to find out he doesn't like the way you hop a fence in a single bound.
For you men: If you're into seeking relationship (can be long term, marriage material, etc...) besides looks are there other qualities you look for when being on a date? What are they?
Or is just the looks most of the times good enough? Example: Guy finds his dream girl who is rated high in looks (can be smart too) but turns out to be an arrogant, snob thinking she's above everyone...
* She has to be energetic/bubbly. Cant stand a low energy slow moving woman.
* She has to lead a similar lifestyle - takes care of her health/fitness and is active. Doesnt have to be a gym rat, but fitness better rank extremely high on her list of priorities.
* She has close group of female friends. If a woman has more guy friends than female friends then something is ALWAYS wrong with her.
* Good balance between positive attitude and a bit of arrogance/bit*hyness/confidence. The wife has this.
* LOVES sex. Lots of sex. Likes when she's stressed, happy, sad, when she needs to relax, when she's bored and when she just wants to have some fun.
- Intelligence
- Somebody who can discuss current affairs, or at least doesn't only have shallow interests
- Somebody who has goals and ambition
- A kindly/decent nature
Positive attitude - Some women like to complain a lot. About their job, their friends, etc. After a while, it gets tiring and you wonder if this person whines about everything. That's why I pay attention to what she's passionate about, not what she doesn't like, and whether she has a sweet disposition about her.
Self-centeredness - When I was in my 20s, I'd often meet women who loved to talk about themselves. You'd be having a conversation about something and they'd turn it back to them. Or they'd ask you about yourself and they'd eventually circle the conversation back to them. If I'm interested in someone, I obviously want to learn about her. But I don't want everything we talk about to be about her. I also don't like it when she's constantly interrupting me. I've met women who have so much to say that they won't even let you finish before responding.
Doesn't live in a bubble - Some people have no clue or interest in anything outside of their own little world. They know their job, their friends, their family, their hobbies, favorite TV shows, etc. But if you try to have a conversation about some big event in the world or just in your city, they shrug.
Sense of humor - I know women say they love a guy who can make them laugh, but it has to go both ways. She also has to able to laugh at herself.
My first criterion: NO SMOKERS!!! Once you start dating a smoker you have to hang out with all of her smoker friends, too. YUCK!!!
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