I used to think that couples counseling was for wimps and all I needed was my friends as well. Sometimes (Calicali01) you need to talk about issues that you are not comfortable with discussing in and amongst your family and friends. In my case I didn't want to paint a dark picture of my relationship and significant other so that in the event things worked out they still respected that person.
Moderator cut: recommendation not allowed We saw a few in the first few months trying it out and ended up seeing her as she was the easiest (and fun) to talk too.
DO THE COUNSELING, I never knew I could be this happy and have found a new level of relationship once I had gotten over my 'baggage' and she saw a few of our 'collision points' from my perspective. Put it this way, were still together
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