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Old 09-30-2010, 02:59 PM
 
Location: The State Line
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Talk about bad timing! Too much drama!

I think if you try to meet her again his should be your last time. If she has another excuse, just tell her "the timing is off" and move on.
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Old 09-30-2010, 03:48 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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Why can't this girl go on a date with her arm in a sling? What kind of excuse is that? Lame, if you ask me.
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Old 09-30-2010, 04:06 PM
 
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With her string of bad luck, maybe it's better that you don't get anywhere near her right now.
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Old 09-30-2010, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Cornelius, NC
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Have you ever met this woman face to face, or has it all been online and text? Have you spoken to her on the phone?
We have talked online and on the phone, but have not met yet.

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You've never met her? Have you at least seen her on web-cam? Or even seen a variety of photos over time? If not, then I suspect she's a fake, and certainly not who she portrays herself as being. Unless you can verify somehow that her excuses are real, you have only her word, and that doesn't seem very reliable.

My rule is, you get one cancellation, then you have to arrange the next meeting, and if you cancel that, you probably won't get another chance unless I have some proof that you are who you say you are and the excuse is very, very good.
We have exchanged several photos. She is attractive.

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This is all weird to me.

I don't think she would make up this stuff unless she is the type that needs attention all the time like that chick that sprayed acid in her face.

If you think this is the type of girl she is you'd better run. That's crazy.
I don't suspect that to be the case. There have been a few times where she doesn't get back to me right away and usually I have to initiate most of the conversations online or on the phone. She is very talkative when we're on the phone though, which is good for me actually because I tend to be more of a listener than a talker.
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Old 09-30-2010, 05:28 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Just tell her to let you know when she's ready to get together and meet. That way the ball is in her court and if she really wants to meet you, she will make it happen. Meanwhile, don't sit around waiting and obsessing. Keep your options open.
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Old 09-30-2010, 05:28 PM
 
Location: Clayton, MO
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We have exchanged several photos. She is attractive.


I'm not trying to burst your bubble, but the photos could be very old or not even her.
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Old 09-30-2010, 05:29 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Just tell her to let you know when she's ready to get together and meet. That way the ball is in her court and if she really wants to meet you, she will make it happen. Meanwhile, don't sit around waiting and obsessing. Keep your options open.
Yep!
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Old 09-30-2010, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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I've been talking to this woman for a while and I really like her so far.

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Thanks!
Don't call her for a while and see what happens.
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Old 09-30-2010, 08:07 PM
 
Location: state of procrastination
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Dude, those are not her photos. Unless you have seen her on a webcam I'd give it up. When I was underage I used to encourage pervy guys who would bug me over the internet, and then a week later tell them that I'm really a man so they can feel disgusted with themselves. The point is you never know who you are talking to.
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Old 10-01-2010, 08:25 AM
 
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Dude, those are not her photos. Unless you have seen her on a webcam I'd give it up. When I was underage I used to encourage pervy guys who would bug me over the internet, and then a week later tell them that I'm really a man so they can feel disgusted with themselves. The point is you never know who you are talking to.
"YOU'RE A MAN?!?!?!?!"
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