How would you feel about your spouse/S.O. "helping themselves"? (different, married)
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Of course, I would wonder why a guy would rather help themselves if I was there to help him, but if that was what he wanted it would be up to him. I think he would choose me, though.
I would think that all guys would prefer to make love with a female. Why else be married? If he preferred doing it solo, then I would think that he would have never courted a lady.
I would certainly prefer to do it with a female.
My memories of love making are mostly that it was a pleasant pastime.
What is a quickie?
It takes my hubby forever to "get there". Maybe because he self stimulates so much. Nowadays I'd prefer him to get there on his own since I won't be left sore and swollen afterwards.
Also, yes, definitely, it could be that he overstimulates himself too much, but I also wonder, and please don't get offended whether you need to do Kegel exercises. Did you have children recently? What I mean is that sometimes men need certain tightness in that area to be able to perform quicker. But I could be completely off base here, this is just an observation.
I would think that all guys would prefer to make love with a female. Why else be married? If he preferred doing it solo, then I would think that he would have never courted a lady.
I would certainly prefer to do it with a female.
My memories of love making are mostly that it was a pleasant pastime.
I enjoyed my rabbit so much I broke it. Had to upgrade.
Dh and I were separated for years of our marriage due to him being in the military. We kept things exciting during those years, but nothing beats the real thing. We enjoy doing everything together, including "helping ourselves."
Yeah, that's like a sin, using the Paul Mitchell for that!! What was he thinking?? Definitely have to stock up on the Suave conditioner for that activity.
Yeah, that's like a sin, using the Paul Mitchell for that!! What was he thinking?? Definitely have to stock up on the Suave conditioner for that activity.
That's what I'm saying!
I got a new "high tech" looking thing at a sex toy party my friend held about a year ago. It's huge, remote-controlled, lights up and beeps and stuff. Very Sci-Fi.
I'm too scared to use it, now, for fear the aliens may come. (punny!)
Also, yes, definitely, it could be that he overstimulates himself too much, but I also wonder, and please don't get offended whether you need to do Kegel exercises. Did you have children recently? What I mean is that sometimes men need certain tightness in that area to be able to perform quicker. But I could be completely off base here, this is just an observation.
My "baby" is 13. I do the Kegels when I think about it. Even when I stimulate him with my hand I am often surprised at how hard he wants me to do it. I think its the diabetes more than anything but he won't listen to me.
My "baby" is 13. I do the Kegels when I think about it. Even when I stimulate him with my hand I am often surprised at how hard he wants me to do it. I think its the diabetes more than anything but he won't listen to me.
What is a quickie?
It takes my hubby forever to "get there". Maybe because he self stimulates so much. Nowadays I'd prefer him to get there on his own since I won't be left sore and swollen afterwards.
Perhaps you could trying different positions? And often some guys will over produce thinking that is what YOU want . Guys seem to think women all want 3 hours sexcaspades....maybe talking to him?
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. Guys seem to think women all want 3 hours sexcaspades....maybe talking to him?
