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Really we aren't? You would be amazed at how much sex we really want when it's GOOD . When the sex is just meh....then we have headaches a lot. And girls tend to masturbate more then guys think....we just don't tell you that is all.
Speaking in generalities can be misleading.
There will always be some minority which do not fit the mold.
I have noooooo problem with it! In fact, I like to "entertain" myself at odd times when the SO isn't around, not to mention our "drives" aren't always in sync. Rather than walk around in a bad mood and p*ssing people off, I just get my release. Then I am so pleasant, I can sell ice to a penguin!!
Last edited by seeniorita; 10-01-2010 at 10:55 AM..
Reason: left out a word
I wouldn't take it personally, I think sometimes a woman wants to take care of business without all of the "stuff" that sometimes goes into being with her man.
Ladies, you know what I mean.
Yes, this goes both way for men and women. Sometimes someone can want the "tension relaease" without all of the stuff that sex with your SO entails (making sure they are pleased, etc).
I see nothing wrong with pure fantasy and "helping onself" as long as this does not happen tothe extent that it REPLACES sex with the partner.
In fact, I read somewhere that the more "in touch" one become with him or herself, the more sexual and sensually in touch they become in general and that lends itself into being a better lover with more of a sexual appetite. So I've read...
this is where the wife's friend failed in her responsibility and ended up losing her husband.
There is likely much more to this story. Most women don't just turn off the sex for no reason. Maybe the guy is a complete tool and never listens to her but expected her to frop her drawers and do her "duty" despite something not seeing right in her marriage.
So does that give a married man the right to cheat? Maybe he should have figured out why she sexually distant and fix that, rather than cheating.
I find the thought of a woman,lost in deep fantasy and pleasure,stimulating herself, for whatever reason, to be very erotic! Soft moans and sighs a telltale sign of a nearing successful climax. How could any man wish to deny her such pleasure? Rather than a man thinking himself inadequate because she chooses some alone time, he should be greatful to have a woman who is free from guilt and inhibitions. The next time he sees her in the throws of self passion he should softly whisper in her ear how damn sexy she is! He shouldnt forget that these moments of self pleasure arent about him. Its about her. And who isnt entitled to some "me" time once in in awhile?
She was preterified about sex by an older sister, and I had no previous expirence to go on. with her she was limp as a sack of flower, for years.
after 2 kids we didn't have sex very often and was rejected repeatedly.
After a while there is noting left to do but take care of your self.
A life time of this , and I could care less about having another dissappointment for the rest of my life women are decptinve and just not worth it . I know too many guys that has happened to , nothing changes.
And fishermen thoughr it was something new "catch and release"
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. When the sex is just meh....then we have headaches a lot. And girls tend to masturbate more then guys think....we just don't tell you that is all.
virgins when we were married
