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Old 10-01-2010, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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She was preterified about sex by an older sister, and I had no previous expirence to go on. with her she was limp as a sack of flower, for years.
after 2 kids we didn't have sex very often and was rejected repeatedly.
After a while there is noting left to do but take care of your self.
A life time of this , and I could care less about having another dissappointment for the rest of my life women are decptinve and just not worth it . I know too many guys that has happened to , nothing changes.
And fishermen thoughr it was something new "catch and release"
Something to be said about catching and releasing. Some of us have a problem when we catch them they never want to let us go. Yes it is that good. LOL I know what your saying but for some it is the truth.

Just wondering why she was having sex with her older sister?
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Old 10-01-2010, 10:24 AM
 
Location: NYC
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I find the thought of a woman,lost in deep fantasy and pleasure,stimulating herself, for whatever reason, to be very erotic! Soft moans and sighs a telltale sign of a nearing successful climax. How could any man wish to deny her such pleasure? Rather than a man thinking himself inadequate because she chooses some alone time, he should be greatful to have a woman who is free from guilt and inhibitions. The next time he sees her in the throws of self passion he should softly whisper in her ear how damn sexy she is! He shouldnt forget that these moments of self pleasure arent about him. Its about her. And who isnt entitled to some "me" time once in in awhile?
Well said.
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Old 10-01-2010, 10:25 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Originally Posted by arleigh View Post
She was preterified about sex by an older sister, and I had no previous expirence to go on. with her she was limp as a sack of flower, for years.
after 2 kids we didn't have sex very often and was rejected repeatedly.
After a while there is noting left to do but take care of your self.
A life time of this , and I could care less about having another dissappointment for the rest of my life women are decptinve and just not worth it . I know too many guys that has happened to , nothing changes.
And fishermen thoughr it was something new "catch and release"
Nothing like judging the entire female population on the actions of one. Hey buddy?
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Old 10-01-2010, 10:27 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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Sounds like some of the ladies here might come up with a serious case of carpal tunnel syndrome.

A) It doesn't take me long so not enough time to develop that, and B) my toys are ergonomic!! lol
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Old 10-01-2010, 10:34 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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I find the thought of a woman,lost in deep fantasy and pleasure,stimulating herself, for whatever reason, to be very erotic! Soft moans and sighs a telltale sign of a nearing successful climax. How could any man wish to deny her such pleasure? Rather than a man thinking himself inadequate because she chooses some alone time, he should be greatful to have a woman who is free from guilt and inhibitions. The next time he sees her in the throws of self passion he should softly whisper in her ear how damn sexy she is! He shouldnt forget that these moments of self pleasure arent about him. Its about her. And who isnt entitled to some "me" time once in in awhile?
Yup. And what guy wouldn't want to watch??? I can't think of any at least that I know. Mutual masturbation is fun, which I think can just be a part of any couple's repertoire in the bedroom if they choose to incorporate it. Self gratification is a natural act and noone should feel guilty about it or make more of it than it is. It does not mean your partner isn't satisfying you. It just means, well, maybe you just like orgasms. Plain and simple imo.
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Old 10-01-2010, 10:35 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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A) It doesn't take me long so not enough time to develop that, and B) my toys are ergonomic!! lol
Ah! How sweet! You and the Energizer bunny! A great team i'm sure!
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Old 10-01-2010, 10:37 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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Ah! How sweet! You and the Energizer bunny! A great team i'm sure!

I highly recommend the rabbit, to anyone who doesn't have one...you don't know what you're missing!!!
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Old 10-01-2010, 10:51 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Sounds like some of the ladies here might come up with a serious case of carpal tunnel syndrome.

It doesn't take me that long so no worries there.........but I sure do wish I were more "catlike"....bend my legs back and kiss myself
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Old 10-01-2010, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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It doesn't take me that long so no worries there.........but I sure do wish I were more "catlike"....bend my legs back and kiss myself

I can pcture that scene.

hahahahahee


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Old 10-01-2010, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Texas
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To me, 'self-satisfaction' has nothing to do with sex. It's just something you do on your own sometimes just for fun or to relieve stress or whatever. It does not take away from sex with your spouse or replace it or have anything to do with it.

I don't get why it's a big deal.
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