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Old 10-05-2010, 09:23 PM
 
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yes, but i don't want those things, the things i want back are things I got for him or rather for us.
Why would you want anything you bought for the two of you?

 
Old 10-05-2010, 09:24 PM
 
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I emailed the deputy that did the report and booked him for FELONY ADW 245(a)(1). see what he has to say about escorting me so i can get my things back b/c he won't on his own and after being asked many times.
 
Old 10-05-2010, 09:26 PM
 
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Grow up. If you want your things, call the sheriff and go get them. There is nothing that you have that is special or unique. It's been seen before. Stop adding unnecessary drama to things. Don't be one of those women who thrives on abuse.
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i've contacted the deputy and the things were what I got for him/us and either destroyed or want them back. it sickens me to think it would be used with someone else. only normal i'd think

fyi - i don't need your abuse. thank you
 
Old 10-05-2010, 09:27 PM
 
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I emailed the deputy that did the report and booked him for FELONY ADW 245(a)(1). see what he has to say about escorting me so i can get my things back b/c he won't on his own and after being asked many times.
Why is he being charged with this if he assaulted you with his hands?
 
Old 10-05-2010, 09:27 PM
 
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Why would you want anything you bought for the two of you?
i am unable to reconcile that he might / could use it with someone else. only normal / natural to think and feel that.

it was also my money.
 
Old 10-05-2010, 09:27 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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good point, however the things i want to retrieve are a bit ... personal and a bit embarrassing b/c of it
You need to decide if these are things you can live without, there value or is it principle, that he has something that belongs to you and refuses to return them? Some things aren't worth it, and better to let it go.
 
Old 10-05-2010, 09:27 PM
 
Location: NYC
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i've contacted the deputy and the things were what I got for him/us and either destroyed or want them back. it sickens me to think it would be used with someone else. only normal i'd think

fyi - i don't need your abuse. thank you
It's not normal.

If you want your things back, call the sheriff and have them escort you to go get them. That's it, that's your only viable option.
 
Old 10-05-2010, 09:29 PM
 
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Why is he being charged with this if he assaulted you with his hands?
if you read that code, it's about GBI (Great Bodily Injury) with his bare hands.

21 photos into evidence of what he did with his bare hands to my throat and mouth

two charges:
false imprisonment is the 2nd one.

Domestic Violence would have been a 3rd.
 
Old 10-05-2010, 09:29 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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i've contacted the deputy and the things were what I got for him/us and either destroyed or want them back. it sickens me to think it would be used with someone else. only normal i'd think

fyi - i don't need your abuse. thank you
You posted here, and are expecting nothing but carebear answers, and someone not sugarcoating your reality is called "abuse"?!

Stuff like that kind of discredits your claims. My opinion.
 
Old 10-05-2010, 09:29 PM
 
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i am unable to reconcile that he might / could use it with someone else. only normal / natural to think and feel that.

it was also my money.
You need to let it go...I'm sure your funeral will be much more expensive than replacing whatever it is you want to retrieve from his home...either replace the items or forget about them and move on...
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