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Old 12-19-2010, 11:09 AM
 
Location: bruckner blvd bronx
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so last night i went on a date, i havent been on a date in about 4 months since my last relationship went terrible.
the date was horrible, ackward silences, dont get me wrong the guy was very attractive, i could tell he wanted to leave and he could tell i wanted to leave as well.

i don't know what happened to me, but lately i have become so uninterested in dating, i don't even try anymore, what could be wrong with me?
is anyone going through what i'm going through now
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Old 12-19-2010, 11:14 AM
 
Location: South FL
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so last night i went on a date, i havent been on a date in about 4 months since my last relationship went terrible.
the date was horrible, ackward silences, dont get me wrong the guy was very attractive, i could tell he wanted to leave and he could tell i wanted to leave as well.

i don't know what happened to me, but lately i have become so uninterested in dating, i don't even try anymore, what could be wrong with me?
is anyone going through what i'm going through now
Aww...don't be so hard on yourself. This guy just wasn't the right guy. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself to date, the right person and the right opportunity will eventually present themselves.
There is nothing wrong with you.
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Old 12-19-2010, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Colorado
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Agreed with the previous poster. Sometimes you just don't have anything to talk about.
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Old 12-19-2010, 11:18 AM
 
Location: bruckner blvd bronx
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Aww...don't be so hard on yourself. This guy just wasn't the right guy. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself to date, the right person and the right opportunity will eventually present themselves.
There is nothing wrong with you.
thank you so much, i hope it does happen. I'm afraid of going on another date after that terrible date last night, i have never been put in such an awkward situation, i literally ran to my car after that date went home and just shut myself down, and now i feel like crap.
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Old 12-19-2010, 11:19 AM
 
Location: bruckner blvd bronx
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Agreed with the previous poster. Sometimes you just don't have anything to talk about.
lol all i can remember talking about was the cold weather......
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Old 12-19-2010, 11:20 AM
 
Location: South FL
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thank you so much, i hope it does happen. I'm afraid of going on another date after that terrible date last night, i have never been put in such an awkward situation, i literally ran to my car after that date went home and just shut myself down, and now i feel like crap.
You know the saying: "gotta kiss many frogs to get to the princess"? Bad dates sometimes are just part of the whole dating process. Just consider it an experience and don't even worry your head about it.
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Old 12-19-2010, 11:22 AM
 
Location: bruckner blvd bronx
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You know the saying: "gotta kiss many frogs to get to the princess"? Bad dates sometimes are just part of the whole dating process. Just consider it an experience and don't even worry your head about it.
I had my prince awhile ago but screwed things up terribly, dating is just too complicated sometimes.
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Old 12-19-2010, 11:32 AM
 
Location: South FL
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I had my prince awhile ago but screwed things up terribly, dating is just too complicated sometimes.
I believe in second chances.
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Old 12-19-2010, 11:43 AM
 
Location: Syracuse IS Central New York.
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I believe in second chances.
And sometimes many second chances....
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Old 12-19-2010, 11:46 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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so last night i went on a date, i havent been on a date in about 4 months since my last relationship went terrible.
the date was horrible, ackward silences, dont get me wrong the guy was very attractive, i could tell he wanted to leave and he could tell i wanted to leave as well.

i don't know what happened to me, but lately i have become so uninterested in dating, i don't even try anymore, what could be wrong with me?
is anyone going through what i'm going through now
Nothing's wrong with you. This is God's calling, you should become a nun
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