Why the hell do people keep asking me if I have a girlfriend or other such questions? (wife, women)
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Here's the prob. There's girls that ask me and there's guys that ask me. In both cases, I learned that saying no will get me laughed at and treated like a virgin and saying yes will prompt them to do a "tell all" thing. I'm like damn, why ya care? I don't do that to them so why they throwing that @ me for?
It seems more odd that you would take such a simple inquiry so defensively. People are naturally curious. If you hang out with them, then at some point, if they have any interest in you at all, in any way, you can expect them to want to know more about you. It's a simple as that. If you find that too invasive, then find yourself a nice island.
I don't get it. Is there something I do to bring this on to myself? They always are the first ones to bring it up too. How can I avoid having people getting curious with knowing my business?
Are you always this paranoid?
Sometimes people just ask questions to show interest in your life, take a chill pill!
If you hang out with them, then at some point, if they have any interest in you at all, in any way, you can expect them to want to know more about you. It's a simple as that. If you find that too invasive, then find yourself a nice island.
No problem! What do you pay for an island keeper and what are the bennies? Does it come with a Tarzan swinging off through the trees?
People ask questions. How you respond is up to you. If you show upset than those that delight in finding weakness will use it against you.
You might try not using "no". Instead say, "I am in-between at the moment, how about you (have bf/gf)?". Answering a question with a question deflects the subject. It also can keep you in charge of the conversation. They need not know that you are in between 0 and 1 for girlfriends.
Here's the prob. There's girls that ask me and there's guys that ask me. In both cases, I learned that saying no will get me laughed at and treated like a virgin and saying yes will prompt them to do a "tell all" thing. I'm like damn, why ya care? I don't do that to them so why they throwing that @ me for?
Yeah I feel you I'm in the same situation. I can understand why you would get defensive if people act like that.
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People are naturally curious. If you hang out with them, then at some point, if they have any interest in you at all, in any way, you can expect them to want to know more about you. It's a simple as that. If you find that too invasive, then find yourself a nice island.
