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Thank you. Yes, that was quite the generalization. The OP should speak for herself, and not for her gender, when it comes to pointing out her character flaws.
Thank you. Yes, that was quite the generalization. The OP should speak for herself, and not for her gender, when it comes to pointing out her character flaws.
Keep on topic, or keep your comments to yourself & off my posts.
Keep on topic, or keep your comments to yourself & off my posts.
Wow, you're awfully rude, and when you post something on a public forum, you don't get to censor the responses. The topic is your original posting, and everyone in the thread is perfectly on topic.
Wow, you're awfully rude, and when you post something on a public forum, you don't get to censor the responses. The topic is your original posting, and everyone in the thread is perfectly on topic.
You are WAY past the age when you should gotten beyond playing games in a relationship.
You are also old enough to realize you have some serious work to do on yourself, which you can't/won't do when you are distracting yourself by playing games and snooping.
So...find a good therapist or just an adult mentor who is actually living a successful life in a successful relationship, and spend some time learning.
If you do not get to the bottom or your issues, your insecurities you will never attract a decent, mature, emotionally healthy mate.
Until you do the work you need to do on YOU, the only men you will attract will be the kind you currently have.
Right, yeah. My bad for asking for some advice / suggestions & thinking I might actually get some real responses. Thanks for a good kick in the face. Exactly what I needed right about now.
No one is kicking you in the face. You asked for advice and you got it, whether you wanted it or not. You should not snoop on a guy you are in a relationship with. If he wants to be with you, he will stay...if he doesn't, he will leave. It is really that simple. If you snoop, you run the risk of running him off. Also, you can't tell people what to say on a thread just because you started it. You don't own it...you just opened it for discussion. Also, when you make generalizations, you are going to irritate people because all people are different. For instance, I am not jealous and have never snooped on a guy I was in a relationship with.
Right, yeah. My bad for asking for some advice / suggestions & thinking I might actually get some real responses. Thanks for a good kick in the face. Exactly what I needed right about now.
I responded to your thread trying to help asking for clarification and you didn't respond. You're acting as if you were personally attacked on this thread and you're being a little dramatic. If you post, you should expect a wide range of responses, some of them critical. I have gotten a lot of criticism in my posts, but I've learned to have a positice image over the past year and a half so I view nothing with such gravity.
You don't have any problems. All your flaws are a result of your gender and can't be helped. Its impossible for you to change and become more mature in the way you deal with your relationship(s). There. Are you UN-kicked in the face?
Way to be dramatic...
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