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Old 10-27-2010, 08:38 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Update with this hot mess- I sent my first correspondance concerning the children via email to the attorney as my ex had requested. I attached the email from my ex that stated I should not contact via mail,text, phone call etc and that ALL correspondence should be via his attorney. This is what I get back from the attonerney-"You need to communicate with your ex concerning your children, I am not his answering service". umm sounds like attorney & client aren't exactly on the same page.
Not sure wether to communicate with ex and disobey his request or send communication to attorney as requested, relinquishing responsiblity if he does not relay this info to my ex.
My ex did call me at work the other day but was remind he should have his attorney call me and then got hung up on.
Aside from that all is wel l& peaceful. Kids doing great.
Well obviously he hasn't retained this attorney so there's no point continuing to communicate through him.

If there are continued problems with child support or visitation then go back to Family Court and let a judge sort it out. In the meantime, strictly adhere to the terms of the agreement already reached and, if you need to talk to your ex about anything then call him (and accept his calls) in a business-like fashion. Hanging up on him is perpetuating the childish nonsense particularly when it's obvious he doesn't have any attorney. You can always remind him in a letter that he specifically asked you to deal with him through his attorney and tell him that you followed this course of action but that the attorney indicated by his response that he's not in fact been retained.
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Old 10-27-2010, 10:09 AM
 
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If and when he hires and attorney for you to communicate with you will receive a letter from the ATTORNEY to that effect and remind him of that as you communicate on a need to basis.
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Old 10-27-2010, 10:18 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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If and when he hires and attorney for you to communicate with you will receive a letter from the ATTORNEY to that effect and remind him of that as you communicate on a need to basis.
Exactly and I think she was told that several posts ago ...
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Old 10-28-2010, 01:32 AM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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Document everything. After each phone call, text or email. Back it up on a memory stick.
If you go to court, documents mean everything. Here say is dis-regarded.

Slander is not slander if it is the truth.

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1. Law Oral communication of false statements injurious to a person's reputation.
2. A false and malicious statement or report about someone.
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Old 10-28-2010, 04:47 AM
 
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Exactly and I think she was told that several posts ago ...

Yeah, that would be page 1.
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