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Old 10-26-2010, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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Yiddish word for holy ****

The bad boy syndrome... Like a bad car crash, you can't look away.

different from the man who has a backbone and will stand up for what he believes and rarely backs down.

actually it means oww pain.

Does seem similiar to celebrities, celebrity watching and the trainwrecks that Hilton and Lohan are. So many people can't help but watch them ruin their lives.
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Old 10-26-2010, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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oh...this topic again. Women can't even agree on defining what a "bad boy" is.
Don't worry, LK. You'll probably make the cut going by at least a few definitions!
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Old 10-26-2010, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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oh...this topic again. Women can't even agree on defining what a "bad boy" is.
That's not it. Men don't agree with our definition.
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Old 10-26-2010, 02:48 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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That's not it. Men don't agree with our definition.
Oh, I don't agree with many women's definitions, either. Most oversimplify things the same way men do.
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Old 10-26-2010, 03:08 PM
 
Location: PNW, CPSouth, JacksonHole, Southampton
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Maybe you should focus on what allows him to get away with being a bad boy. Is he stronger and more violent than other males you have access to? Basically the 'Head Babboon'? It is said that Women are attracted to Alpha Males.

Could it be that an overabundance of Testosterone both shapes his behavior and makes him stronger/better looking/more 'potent'?

Do the qualities that make him a Bad Boy make him seem more manly to you? Do they make lovemaking more intense for you?

Are you attracted to what you perceive as a need, within him?

Back when I was supervising my own offices, I frequently snatched phones away from female employees who were being talked to by their Bad Boys, on my dime. I told a bunch of those dudes off (in terms of their theft of my time, and its effect on their girlfriends' employability). When I counseled the girlfriends/wives, I never could get to the bottom of what the attraction was. Why did these poor little sad sacks allow those f'tards to ruin their lives?

Tell me. What do you get out of it?

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Old 10-26-2010, 03:08 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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Don't worry, LK. You'll probably make the cut going by at least a few definitions!

Yeah but I am not bad.....I am just dirty......minded.
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Old 10-26-2010, 03:15 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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That's not it. Men don't agree with our definition.

One time a girl called me "so sweet, but also a dick". Could that be a defintion?
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Old 10-26-2010, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Yeah but I am not bad.....I am just dirty......minded.
There's no breathing woman in her right mind who would take your deal (at least not for long), LK - being ignored all day every day and serving as a blow-up doll when needed. I’d imagine you don’t outline the terms of the contract when you first meet them as you do here, which gives you some leeway. You can also afford that because you're good-looking and a musician. It's a known fact many fall into this trap.
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Old 10-26-2010, 03:17 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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One time a girl called me "so sweet, but also a dick". Could that be a defintion?
I don't assume all men are idiots just because there are some out there.
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Old 10-26-2010, 03:23 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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There's no breathing woman in her right mind who would take your deal (at least not for long), LK - being ignored all day every day and serving as a blow-up doll when needed. I’d imagine you don’t outline the terms of the contract when you first meet them as you do here, which gives you some leeway. You can also afford that because you're good-looking and a musician. It's a known fact many fall into this trap.

c'mon now, I am not that cold and distant. I am very "nice" , "bad" in a good way, affectionate and stuff only that it is in spurts, and then I want to be left alone for a while and be independant. Just need a chick the same way.
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