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Originally Posted by Jason28
Yes, quite stupid actually. Bad boy comes with a connotation of he does things considered "bad". This term usually means the boy (lets not confuse him with a man) is a cheater, has had probably 50+ sexual partners, and treats women like a piece of property. Knowing that, and then having sex with him, you are potentially exposing yourself to that person permanently (through STD's or pregnancy). Its also fairly common for the "bad boy" to have no real ambition in life outside of getting laid. Boy, what a turn on!
A pretty face, on the other hand, does not necessarily come with those same negative attachments. Its fairly common for a pretty girl to be a tad dopey but thats the only possible stereotype that actually fits.
As far as being wired to find things attractive, that argument only carries so far. You were also given a brain to make logical conclusions. Use it or suffer the consequences.
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Heh, the problem is that most human beings relate to others, emotionally, and sexually ,because of external factors such as height, muscles, breasts, pretty faces, blonde hair, tall, dark and handsome; it has nothing to do with logic.
If people worked with logic when it comes to relationships, then most people would be celibates like me.
Say, to have a relationship you have to spend money. Even if the woman pays for her things, you still have to waste money on gasoline. You still have to pay for your dinner or your tickets or whatever.
Also, most human beings have HPV. HPV is not only bad for women, but I've heard that it might be linked to Prostrate cancer. Then we have that fact that a lot of people are infected with herpes(genital and facial).
You also never know if that friendlly, good looking(or average or ugly) guy is going to murder you when he gets you alone. Or that the sweet little woman is actually a serial rapist.
Logic says that it doesn't make any sense for the individual to have children. Still, I am always seeing tons of babies. It also doesn't make sense for a man and a woman to live together.
Since most relationships are going to die out, it's illogical to invest time and money and emotions on a man/woman.
Funny how it pays to be single and celibate(no stress, no bills to pay, no children to worry about, no stds etc)
But still humans "fall in love", have casual sex, and continue with their obsession with sex and companionship.
Where's the logic in that? How many can break away from their genetic wiring to go out and reproduce and pair up?
So how can you speak of women taking hold of their desire for bad boys, when all sexual and emotional interactions carry a lot of risk and little reward?
That great emotional connection? Science broke it down to chemicals. Love? Same thing. Sex being that good? That's right, it must be. Humans wouldn't waste time with the other sex if that wasn't so, but take in consideration that sex is one of the most powerful drugs out there. Why do people do it? It's not logical?
Because human beings crave pleasant sensations and feelings.
And man, does it feel great to have you own house - paid for - a camaro 2nd generation - a college degree, no student loans, and lots of money in the bank.
How did I achieve this? I looked around when younger, saw how much of a massive load wives and girlfriends are, decided I love money way too much to spend it on something as fleeting as sexual pleasure or "emotional connection".
It does feel great to see all the other guys struggling to pay their rents, their kid's needs etc etc, while I walk around with a huge grin - and extremely plain clothes to keep the gold diggers away.
So... this is what you can achieve when you take full control over your pleasaure centers
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So as I previously posted me and my boyfriend of 3 1/2yrs broke up after finding out a lot of stuff that wasn't appropriate for someone in a relationship to be doing. But now is the dilemma.............
