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No offense to Women and not to say all Women are like this but, most or some Women don't feel satisfied after the Man they had gotten had met their standards.
So that makes me wonder what do Women really want?
No one "gets" another person. So let't first just take the possession part of of the equasion.
When someone forms a relationship with the other, its is give and take, naturally. So when you say some women are not happy after (say, entering a relationship) with a man that meets their standards, then the logical reason would be that he is not living up to those standards, or she discovers they are not compatible. Same goes for men, and discovering that a woman does not seem to match what what they are looking for.
You have to live in the relationship for a while before you can know if another person matches what you are looking for, or in your words, "standards".
If anyone goes out there and "selects" someone who appears to be the one and married them without first discovering if they compatible and happy together, well that is just silly. So maybe you are looking for an answer to address those few, and for those I have no answer. I do not feel it is the norm.
No one "gets" another person. So let't first just take the possession part of of the equasion.
When someone forms a relationship with the other, its is give and take, naturally. So when you say some women are not happy after (say, entering a relationship) with a man that meets their standards, then the logical reason would be that he is not living up to those standards, or she discovers they are not compatible. Same goes for men, and discovering that a woman does not seem to match what what they are looking for.
You have to live in the relationship for a while before you can know if another person matches what you are looking for, or in your words, "standards".
If anyone goes out there and "selects" someone who appears to be the one and married them without first discovering if they compatible and happy together, well that is just silly. So maybe you are looking for an answer to address those few, and for those I have no answer. I do not feel it is the norm.
The first 2 paragraphs is understandable, but what if he lives up to those expectations all the time?
Take Desperate Housewives for example; The Wives have a good life and good Husband but still isn't satisfied and looks for someone else in that marraige(same goes for Men, Male in general).
Matter of fact, about year ago I was listening to Steve Harvey Radio and the news came out that a Woman had a good Hudsand and had a couple or few kids and the Husband did all the right things(if not aLL the right things), yet she(Wife) still had cheated on him with another man.
The first 2 paragraphs is understandable, but what if he lives up to those expectations all the time?
Take Desperate Housewives for example; The Wives have a good life and good Husband but still isn't satisfied and looks for someone else in that marraige(same goes for Men, Male in general).
Matter of fact, about year ago I was listening to Steve Harvey Radio and the news came out that a Woman had a good Hudsand and had a couple or few kids and the Husband did all the right things(if not aLL the right things), yet she(Wife) still had cheated on him with another man.
OP, are you really young? I mean, surely you don't take television shows as reality. As for the cheating...are you assuming that only women cheat? And that only women could possibly have a spouse that was seemingly perfect, yet he still cheated on her? Ever hear of Tiger Woods?
People cheat...men AND women. And yes sometimes it seems like they cheat when everything is going well. But obviously, there's a problem somewhere. It isn't rocket science. People are stupid. Everywhere you look.
The problem is, does he continue to meet her standards? On the flip side, does she continue to meet his?
Seriously though, I agree with this. He may have stopped meeting her standards.
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