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Old 10-29-2010, 12:01 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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I'm a 23 year old Male by the way.

Like lets say that if I see someone at work such as a beatiful nice woman and I want to be with her in the future and sometimes I fantasize or sexually fantsize about her, but I know the difference between Reality and Fiction and I do treat women with respect.

Is it alright or is it bad?

But, sometimes i think of the sexually things about her as a fanatsy which i don't know if it's either wrong or not so i just fantasize about someone else instead of her so i would not disrespect her, even though i don't and wouldn't act upon my fantasy i still feel like i disrespect her by fantasizing about her sexually which is why i rather fantasize about someone like Beyonce or Tara Banks for example.

I'm also a Virgin by the way, and I want to keep it that way until I'm married with the person(Woman) that I really want to be with.
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Old 10-29-2010, 12:25 PM
 
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I think it's quite normal to imagine someone you're attracted to in a sexual manner. Nothing you should feel guilty about.
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Old 10-29-2010, 01:09 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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I agree with poster #2 - Fantasizing is perfectly normal, so go right ahead and carry on (so to speak).
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Old 10-30-2010, 01:55 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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Originally Posted by Blackandgold51 View Post

I'm a 23 year old Male by the way.

Like lets say that if I see someone at work such as a beatiful nice woman and I want to be with her in the future and sometimes I fantasize or sexually fantsize about her, but I know the difference between Reality and Fiction and I do treat women with respect.

Is it alright or is it bad?

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married with the person(Woman) that I really want to be with.
It is all right to fantasize about her but it would be even more all right if you took real steps towards getting to know this woman who may be the one you really want to be with.
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