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Yes, you handled yourself well. And don't talk to her anymore. What a weird situation. So this is what her kids have to deal with apparently; being left with a stranger to babysit them (thanks God you're a good person) and having to watch mommy coming home with 2 guys at night. My God.
I agree with the others who suggested she was looking for a threesome. A woman goes out drinking with two guys then comes home and invites them into her bedroom to lie down on the bed and just talk? Doubtful.
Funny, we don't hear anything about how the other dude who was in the sack, or even how our boy Repub, is a freaky nasty man for being in that situation. It's only the woman who has "no morals."
I'm with SD. I think this may have been a particularly vivid dream.
Ok, thank God, the story was so suspenseful I thought the two drunk guys were gonna make out or something
They did. Something happened in that bedroom. He's holding out on the story. How do you get two grown men in the same bed together. Three adults lying in the same bed and we aren't thinking threesome.
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I met a woman about 3 months ago, we dated for these last 3 months and I really tried to be respectful and never crossed any line, as far as physical or sexual contact. I really enjoyed our conversations and we continued to date and developed a friendship.
Last week, she was going to go church and she asked me if I could babysit her children. I said SURE but at the same time, I thought, maybe she lacks good judgement, because she does not know me very well, what if I was a child molester?
This entire time she acted as if we were friends but I felt like there was more there. Anyways, we went out tonight and she invited me and another guy, supposedly another one of her male friends.
I could tell the guy was all over her, so I just sat down and watched. Then, she would come to me when he walked away. Anyways, we all drank heavily and went back to her place and we three laid in her bed.
I looked over and I saw them cuddling, right in front of me, I got up and left and I was pissed off. I just felt used, especially since she made me feel special but I think I figured that she probably makes all her guy friends, feel "special", so that she can keep em around when she needs them.
I just got home and I am totally turned off, her kids really like me and I felt like we were developing a bond but now I don't even wanna talk to her. Did I handle this right or? At this point, I really don't give a crap but I think I finally figured her out, now I know that our morals, character and values are total opposite.
Aside from the bolded (I can't imagine what inspired you to make it that far. I mean, what did you expect to come of that? ) you handled it about as well as can be expected. I wouldn't spend any more precious time thinking about her.
Funny, we don't hear anything about how the other dude who was in the sack, or even how our boy Repub, is a freaky nasty man for being in that situation. It's only the woman who has "no morals."
I'm with SD. I think this may have been a particularly vivid dream.
Avienne, maybe Repub was disappointed in the situation. Maybe the guy wasn't all he wanted him to be.
I met a woman about 3 months ago, we dated for these last 3 months and I really tried to be respectful and never crossed any line, as far as physical or sexual contact. I really enjoyed our conversations and we continued to date and developed a friendship.
Last week, she was going to go church and she asked me if I could babysit her children. I said SURE but at the same time, I thought, maybe she lacks good judgement, because she does not know me very well, what if I was a child molester?
This entire time she acted as if we were friends but I felt like there was more there. Anyways, we went out tonight and she invited me and another guy, supposedly another one of her male friends.
I could tell the guy was all over her, so I just sat down and watched. Then, she would come to me when he walked away. Anyways, we all drank heavily and went back to her place and we three laid in her bed.
I looked over and I saw them cuddling, right in front of me, I got up and left and I was pissed off. I just felt used, especially since she made me feel special but I think I figured that she probably makes all her guy friends, feel "special", so that she can keep em around when she needs them.
I just got home and I am totally turned off, her kids really like me and I felt like we were developing a bond but now I don't even wanna talk to her. Did I handle this right or? At this point, I really don't give a crap but I think I finally figured her out, now I know that our morals, character and values are total opposite.
This entire scenario sounds weird. First of all, you've been dating for 3 months and you feel that "she does not know me very well". Yet she asked you to babysit her kids? Clearly you two are not on the same page.
When she "invited you out"...she invited you and another guy? This was a date? WTF? And you actually WENT? And then drank heavily? And watched the other guy paw her? And you still went home with her and the other guy, and LAID IN BED with the other dude as well? And now you are harumphing all over the place asking if you handled things correctly?
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Funny, we don't hear anything about how the other dude who was in the sack, or even how our boy Repub, is a freaky nasty man for being in that situation. It's only the woman who has "no morals."
I'm with SD. I think this may have been a particularly vivid dream.
I met a woman about 3 months ago, we dated for these last 3 months and I really tried to be respectful and never crossed any line, as far as physical or sexual contact. I really enjoyed our conversations and we continued to date and developed a friendship.
Last week, she was going to go church and she asked me if I could babysit her children. I said SURE but at the same time, I thought, maybe she lacks good judgement, because she does not know me very well, what if I was a child molester?
This entire time she acted as if we were friends but I felt like there was more there. Anyways, we went out tonight and she invited me and another guy, supposedly another one of her male friends.
I could tell the guy was all over her, so I just sat down and watched. Then, she would come to me when he walked away. Anyways, we all drank heavily and went back to her place and we three laid in her bed.
I looked over and I saw them cuddling, right in front of me, I got up and left and I was pissed off. I just felt used, especially since she made me feel special but I think I figured that she probably makes all her guy friends, feel "special", so that she can keep em around when she needs them.
I just got home and I am totally turned off, her kids really like me and I felt like we were developing a bond but now I don't even wanna talk to her. Did I handle this right or? At this point, I really don't give a crap but I think I finally figured her out, now I know that our morals, character and values are total opposite.
OP, I think you handled this situation about as well as any guy would handle any TOTALLY FICTIONAL EVENT.
I'm sorry for being so blunt, but I really have to say this. And I mean it in all sincerity. I don't believe you. I think that what you wrote never happened.
Funny, we don't hear anything about how the other dude who was in the sack, or even how our boy Repub, is a freaky nasty man for being in that situation. It's only the woman who has "no morals."
The thread is about Repub and the no-morals woman he got involved with. I don't get the impression he cares what we think of the other dude. And btw, he eventually walked away from the situation, so not exactly freaky nasty..
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) you handled it about as well as can be expected. I wouldn't spend any more precious time thinking about her.
