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Old 11-06-2010, 03:23 PM
 
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Im not much of a talker. Wish I was. I love reading trivia type books and interesting facts lol Don't know if you share that sort of stuff with friends?
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Old 11-06-2010, 03:25 PM
 
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be yourself, and don't act to accommodate others.
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Old 11-06-2010, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Being boring is nobody's intrinsic trait. Conversation is something that's bounced off two people who either hit it off or don't. It's neither one's fault if that doesn't happen - they're just not on the same wavelength and have nothing in common.
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Old 11-06-2010, 03:38 PM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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I think it depends on who you're with. If you share certain interests or even personality traits such as a sense of humor you can probably just be yourself as samston said and you won't be boring at all. When I think about people I've known who I consider boring I would put several of them at the top of the list who were boring because they tend to be the know it all type or I got the feeling that they were attempting to put on some kind of performance that is supposed to impress people. It's my feeling that if you are sincere when you're interacting with someone and show a certain amount of interest in them that boredom isn't going to be a problem at all.
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Old 11-06-2010, 03:38 PM
 
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Default excellent replies

sampson and K Country
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Old 11-06-2010, 03:40 PM
 
Location: Lowell, MA
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Default How do you NOT be boring?

I myself was shy, I didn't consider myself boring ....

When you meet the right person the conversation will flow, believe me, it happened to me with all 4 men I had serious relationships with and it will happen with you too ...

Just have faith and patience !!!
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Old 11-06-2010, 04:07 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Im not much of a talker. Wish I was. I love reading trivia type books and interesting facts lol Don't know if you share that sort of stuff with friends?
Go to Borders books and check out the Dummies series books. "How to not be boring for Dummies."
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Old 11-06-2010, 04:21 PM
 
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Try drinking six red bull energy drinks about ten minutes prior to the date. I can promise you things won't be boring.
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Old 11-06-2010, 04:42 PM
 
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Default can the how not to be boring

for Dummies books be ordered online? Not all stores have all the books and it would be hard to picture myself asking a store clerk if they had that one(LOL)

seriously it sounds like a good read
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Old 11-06-2010, 04:56 PM
 
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I agree with most of these great posts.

There are certain people I just don't hit it off with. Like no words are exchanged. Then other people I am like high five here and high five there. It's chemistry.

If someone thinks you are boring that is their problem not yours. There will be someone that will find you interesting and deep.
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