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Your family seems to want what's best for you... but after 9 years, you've obviously made your choice..Why you would want to share life with a cheater is anyones guess . Does he support the kids he's made? Judge him by that, if nothing more, remember History repeats it'self.. will he still want YOU, after he has you???What is more important to you..your family, or a man who can't seem to make up his mind what he wants.The path you are on will lead you through some major heartache.. are you ready for that..is he worth it????
Listen to your family. There's a reason why they say love is blind.
What advice would you give a very good friend who was in this same situation? If her SO had been fathering children with other women, and in trouble with the law?
It's not your job to be a nurse or a purse to a man. Or his mommy. He is irresponsible and has proved it over and over. He won't be responsible with you either. You can't change him. You can change you.
Does your family pay your bills? If not, you're free to choose whoever you want. They'll either accept your decision over time and love you anyway, or shut you out initially and perhaps in time they'll come around. Do what makes you happy.
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