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Old 11-12-2010, 05:56 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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Calling me an autistic person huh? It's off topic anyways.

About the kick in the balls, well it is a challenge because it means we're doing something you guys wouldn't do.... at least some of us got the courage to attack back unlike most men that wouldn't fight off a bigger/stronger man than themselves but would rather continue picking on easy opponents (beating the poor girl because you don't have to put any effort to it)... now what type of challenge is that??? A coward's way out.

My previous statement still stands. I still think he overdid it and is nothing but a loser.

On second thought....


No, my apologies -- the comment should remain for all to see. Your opinion of men as a whole illustrates your dating style and your ongoing selection of partners (as well as your overall conduct) nicely.
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Old 11-12-2010, 06:15 AM
 
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You'd be suprised at the number of women actually charged with domestic abuse. I knew a couple where the wife was the abuser and he moved out and took the kids with him and she could only see them with supervised visitation even though she never abused the children. Many abusers of a domestic partner will, in fact, abuse the children too.

According to this ABC News report there has been a startling increase in the number of women who are the perpetrators of domestic violence.

New South Wales Bureau of Crime Statistics figures show that over the past eight years, the number of women charged with domestic abuse has rocketed by 159 per cent.

Domestic violence: Women abusers on the rise - ABC News (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)

It's not so much that they 'get away with it' rather men are typically too embarassed about it to report it so add that to the above.
Women are the primary abusers of children.

Women commit ~50% of bidirectional domestic violence.

Women commit ~70% of unidirectional domestic violence.

Despite men's average 20% size & upper-body strength advantages, they still make up 1/3 of all *reported* DV injuries.

RADAR: RADAR Media Fact Sheet

http://www.mediaradar.org/research.php
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Old 11-12-2010, 07:11 AM
 
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Rihanna wanted a Bad Boy with an edge; she just didn't want him to actually be bad or edgy -- you know, kind of like throwing a rock AT someone but not meaning to HIT them.
How do you know what Rihanna wanted? For one thing, Chris Brown never had a "bad boy" image. Or do you just think that all R&B artists are thugs? You make it sound as though she asked for this.
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Old 11-12-2010, 07:37 AM
 
Location: Hawaii
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Do people really think kicking a guy in the nuts for grabbing your breasts is equivalent to tourtring him for farting during a tv show? come on...

if you're being sexually assulted or harrassed, I definetly think it's ok to retaliate and I have no idea why it would be considered "abusing" the person..?
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Old 11-12-2010, 08:34 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Do people really not read posts properly before they go off ranting about them ?

Come on...........

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Do people really think kicking a guy in the nuts for grabbing your breasts is equivalent to tourtring him for farting during a tv show? come on...

if you're being sexually assulted or harrassed, I definetly think it's ok to retaliate and I have no idea why it would be considered "abusing" the person..?
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Old 11-12-2010, 09:23 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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How do you know what Rihanna wanted? For one thing, Chris Brown never had a "bad boy" image. Or do you just think that all R&B artists are thugs? You make it sound as though she asked for this.

Simple: She said this in the link I posted. She also said the very same thing on Oprah. Should I go out and find more?


As far as "asking" for this -- let's be real: NO woman in her right mind "asks" for such a thing. However TONS of women DO love the "bad boys" and will quite readily say so openly. They love them precisely because they believe themselves to be "above or beyond" his bad-boy-ness. He's tough but they bring out his sensitivity. He's cool, but with them it's different and he's warm and caring.

It's the IMAGE they love and revere, seldom stopping to take into account that this is a fairy tale they're trying to live, and any notion they have that a bad boy will treat them differently than he treats everyone else is utterly foolish.

As for Brown -- the first I ever heard of him was with the MASSIVE publicity this Rihanna thing received. I don't know what kind of image he has, nor care; further, I know full well that a stage-and-public image is NOT necessarily the real person, certainly NOT what Rihanna was dating behind the scenes.

Man-on-woman violence always gets big publicity. I'd launch into PLENTY of posts from viable sources such as ABC News and Newsweek on the way man-to-woman violence is reviled while woman-to-man violence is revered and lauded...

...but last time I did this the entire thread was shut down and deleted, and when I questioned the female mod who did this, her only response was that she had "...seen quite enough ugliness for one day." Thus ended my campaign to respond when women began to shout for proof and evidence in that thread; I provided and was shut down immediately.

Similar threads going the other direction -- such as this one, where "kick him in the NUTZ" seems to be a running theme -- are perfectly well tolerated, not considered "bashing" in the least.
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Old 11-12-2010, 11:35 AM
 
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I'm fairly confident that when she stated she liked bad boys, she didn't have domestic violence in mind. What silly things we say when we're 21...glad I never had a microphone shoved in front of my face when I was 21, I know I said some pretty questionable things.

I still can't see how you can say she got what she asked for, as though she deserved it. There's a big difference between wanting a guy who is dark and edgy and asking to be beaten and abused, they do not go hand in hand. I may want a guy whose aggressive and takes charge, that doesn't mean I want some caveman who is going to drag me off by the hair and control my every move.
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Old 11-12-2010, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Nobody said she asked for it. Yet it still bears mentioning that your chances of getting burned increase substantially when you play with fire. That's something young women should know, but it seems some would rather they never even hear it.
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Old 11-12-2010, 12:50 PM
 
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Go for a kneeling or kick in his privates aka the nuts (testicles)... From what I keep hearing is they go on the ground in pain, sometimes cry and can't seem to get up easily. Off course as he's down I'll go for some more.... the same amount of beating I was put through while inside the car.

This would be sooo damn funny.... yeah I would be totally mean alright.
I'm sure that would be hilarious for about 30 seconds or so, but something tells me a guy like Chris Brown isn't going to just "let it end" at having his nuts attacked. Have fun getting your ass kicked to a new degree after he gets up off the ground.
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Old 11-12-2010, 12:55 PM
 
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...but last time I did this the entire thread was shut down and deleted, and when I questioned the female mod who did this, her only response was that she had "...seen quite enough ugliness for one day."
The truth is often quite ugly. No one questions saying ugly things about men, as long as their is atleast one man on the planet that the ugly thing applies to. Saying ugly things about women is misogynistic and won't be tolerated.

I actually have no problem following this rule, I just wish it was pointed out upfront.
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