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I agree, I don't see why she is a poor friend - it was 5 freakin' years ago her husband cheated - she obviously has moved on - and possible to better things.
As for you not trusting men, that's obviously not her issue.
Yes, once again, this is being turned around. I'm not picking on you, Lisalan, but you really need to be working on some issues. Your choice of words to describe a work friend and your - what I first read - as disapproval of her for trusting the "new" (1 yr) man in her life. Further, you say that you couldn't trust any man to move in with you if you had young daughters. Not young children, but daughters only.
Last edited by yankeegirl313; 11-12-2010 at 06:00 PM..
So my poor friend at work's husband cheated on her 5 years ago right after the birth of their second child. She wanted the marriage to work but he had no intention of making it work. I saw her the other day. I had not seen her in over a year. I asked her how things were going and she said "I'm still seeing the fireman whoohoo!"
He moved in with her. She has a 5 year old and a 9 year old girl. Her boyfriend has a 5 yr old and a 6 yr old boy and he shares custody.
I don't know about you but how could she be so trusting of someone and move in with someone else so quickly after her divorce. I would never be able to trust a man coming into my home when I have two young girls.
What do you think?
You friend is dating fire marshall bill. Good for her.
Lisa, it sounds like you're jealous. You're happy for your friends, when their relationships are miserable. Misery loves company.
Should she move into his home with her two girls.
How long is appropriate for YOU, so she can move on with her life.
I know she didn't run it pass you first, but hey get over it.
I agree, I don't see why she is a poor friend - it was 5 freakin' years ago her husband cheated - she obviously has moved on - and possible to better things.
As for you not trusting men, that's obviously not her issue.
Yes, once again, this is being turned around. I'm not picking on you, Lisalan, but you really need to be working on some issues. Your choice of words to describe a work friend and your - what I first read - as disapproval of her for trusting the "new" (1 yr) man in her life. Further, you say that you couldn't trust any man to move in with you if you had young daughters. Not young children, but daughters only.
Thanks Dr. Phil
Last edited by yankeegirl313; 11-12-2010 at 06:02 PM..
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If she's a work friend, why haven't you seen her in a year?
Regardless, I don't quite understand the point of the thread. It sounds like she has moved on and is happy, and as a friend you should be happy for her. If she has been dating him for at least a year, I'm going to assume she feels he is trustworthy. People have the right to move on with their lives and be happy, and it's not fair to assume all men are pedophiles.
I also don't understand why you would call her your poor friend. It sounds like she has moved on and things are going well for her. I say good for her, and maybe you could learn a thing or two.
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Wanted to get my response in before the thread gets closed.
Not jealous of her sweetie. As usual you constantly jump to the WRONG conclusions
What's your problem with this woman?
Why is she poor ...
You were happy, when her hubs was cheating, then your life seem so golden. Now, she's happy with a new life and guy.
The last time you saw this woman, she was a sad mess. Now, she's happy. Her life has improved greatly. What do you do. Wow, you get on here and trash talk her.
High five to her.
Seek help Lisa, dear.
This is the prime example why some women can't develop long lasting relationships. They hate their lives, so she wants you to be sad and miserable too.
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